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Dance Shoe Blues – Footwear Identity Crisis – What to wear to class?

I’m in a dance shoe identity crisis!

It’s not too serious, though a common concern among people trying out or returning to various dance styles.

The exploration is ongoing as our knowledge of dance techniques grows, our own bodies and the dance styles and shoes themselves change and evolve.

Folks often ask why I mostly wear socks to teach and dance these days, and what they themselves should wear to beginner ballet or other styles of dance classes.

This year I’ve been studying Argentine Tango for the first time, and that requires different considerations in terms of footwear, due to the type of flooring and the technique being wholly different from the ballet and modern dance studios and stages to which I am accustomed.

I’ve recently been sharing my creative supplies and EDC/Everyday Carry essentials, so along those lines, here is an informal chat with more information about what dance shoes I regularly use and what is appropriate for a first movement class for adults or children.

Dance Shoe Blues & FAQs – Fitting Footwear video on YouTube

Dancing in Socks?

So why do I wear socks and what are they?

My dancey socks are just plain black, very thin and high cotton-content (80-90% or higher ideally) for breathability and grip, business-type socks which I purchase in 3-packs at a local department store. I have a bunch of pairs so I can wash between wears, like them to teach yoga and ballet, barre and barre a terre, modern and contemporary…

Wearing socks instead of ballet slippers or dancing with bare feet was a practice I started since I suffered from a plantar wart (lots of dance floors in those days too, hard to know where it came from!) while getting my MFA in dance and teaching.

While re-staging a modern dance piece called “Blue Green,” Betsy Fisher taught me to dye thin white cotton socks to my skin tone, so that the visual effect was that of bare feet. I found them very comfortable, with a bit of protection and as they wore in, a good mix of slip and grip for the technically demanding piece.

During that time it was also becoming a contemporary dance trend of black socks for dancing. There are specifically dance socks on the market, with technical features in terms of support, but I haven’t tried any myself yet.

Sometimes I also dance in ballet slippers, pointe shoes, jazz shoes, or other suitable footwear, such as sneakers outside or even boots.

Maybe socks are right for you as well, or perhaps after your first lesson or chatting with the instructor you find there is a dance shoe just for you.

“Blue Green” at Kennedy Theatre

Blue Green,” performed by myself and Mareva Minerbi, choreography by Carl Wolz, music composed by Francis Poulenc, re-staged by Betsy Fisher at the University of Hawai’i Kennedy Theatre.

Starting New Dance Styles

The best advice to new or returning students: consult with your teacher before investing in a specific technical shoe and then get properly fitted.

Wait until you’re committed and have a track record of participation rather than buying a bunch of gear before knowing what to look for. Yes, shopping for kit is fun, but not a practical approach to investing in the right sort of equipment. We need to get to know the demands of the craft a little bit first before

My new dance style this year is Argentine Tango and I have yet to buy specific shoes that would be best suited, still considering what style to invest in for myself. Observing and talking with the instructor, taking a look at what folks wear in our studio and in videos online, and experiencing the movements and the floors will ultimately inform the decision of which shoes are right.

Ballet Shoes for Kids

For children, it’s generally practical with ballet slippers to size up a little. As long as they are not too loose, this accommodates for fast foot growth especially important because too-tight shoes get painful and we need to make sure to have room for the toes to spread and move.

Here it is especially important to talk to the prospective teacher/studio first before shopping to make sure to buy the approved footwear and not waste money on the wrong style. Wherever possible, avoid extra decoration, bows, prints, elastic bands and ribbons as these distract young movers.

Adult Dancing Feet

It might be that your feet and needs change as an adult as well, so don’t wear your former dancing shoes if you find they are no longer comfortable! Widening, lengthening, growing stronger or changing form in other ways, an important feature of movement technique as an adult is adapting to our changing state. Addressing any aches, pains, and challenges that come along, especially in the feet since they affect the whole body, is important, and we may need to pursue physical therapy or orthopedic consultation, professional shoe fitting or other appropriate treatment so that we can keep on dancing our whole life long.

Got up on my old pointe shoes recently for fun and the Alphabet Superset

Flooring is Important

Even more important than footwear is the floor on which you are dancing, both the surface texture and the structure underneath. For high-impact dance techniques such as ballet, which involves a lot of jumping and demanding maneuvers, it is critical for our dancing longevity to have a properly sprung/springy under-floor construction as well as a smooth, clean and slightly grippy surface. We are rightfully careful and picky about our floors.

Shoes must then be compatible with the flooring type (not too sticky, not too slippery) and can only somewhat address the surface to an extent. Think of running shoes on concrete, you get some cushioning to the joints but it’s still pretty gnarly. Both floors and shoes need the right amount of bounce, slip or grip for the dance technique and our own physicality, and these are factors that take time and experience to consider.

Questions for Reflection

  • In what attire are you most comfortable moving?
  • What essential items nourish your creativity and productivity?
  • Which physical things support living your purpose?
  • Which type(s) of dancing have you always wanted to try?
  • What type of shoe would you like to invest in for your new dance style?
  • What creative challenges are you currently facing?
Get Down Daily was one of my most fun challenges yet, and is ongoing!

Resources for Further Exploration

I created this Digest of Dance Resources I’ve created so far to celebrate International Dance Day this year and my library of Ballet & Dance video resources includes theoretical and historical lessons, movement tutorials, and practice sessions. The videos are handily grouped into thematic playlists many of which as suitable to beginners, such as:

Here are a few past creative challenges that I have shared, with future opportunities to be announced as well:

Further opportunities to learn with me:

  • Balletlicious with Blythe Ballet Syllabus Google Hyper-Doc with Links to tutorials available by request to students and weekly email newsletter subscribers
  • My approximately-weekly Email Newsletter itself is a feast of dancey and creative living resources, featuring my latest creations and those of other awesome folks
  • Live Classes In-Studio & Online: Mindful Movement (Ballet, Barre a Terre, Dance, Yoga…) to move together at home or anywhere in the world

It is a fun lifelong exploration and I wish you all the best in your dancing adventures! Let me know how I can be of service as you dance through life.

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
they/them or she/her
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties
and take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life

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A Sensational September & Season – 2024 Month 9 & Quarter 3 Review

September I really got in the swing of “Back-to-School” and my Fall schedule, celebrating the high summer into fall, looking back at Quarter 3 and forward to Quarter 4 with a new year on it’s way before we know it.

September slips from Summer to Fall

Here in Cologne, Germany, the weather was right on cue, September heralding early Fall with cooling temperatures, grey and rainy days in the mix of golden and gleaming ones, both showing off the first changing and falling leaves.

Wolkenburg with Ela on the red carpet, lovely August wedding location in Cologne!

The warmest quarter of the year was gratifyingly summery right up until the Autumn Equinox. Staying close to home in Cologne in quarter three (whereas Q2 was packed with travel and we’ll enjoy at least a weekend getaway in Q4), we got outside a lot for walks, some of which included Rufio the cat, picnics, botanical and rose garden visits, and showing visiting friends and family our pretty city.

My girlfriend’s sister’s wedding in August was definitely a highlight of the quarter, along Ela and my 6th Anniversary in September and both PRIDE and Nonbinary People’s Day in July.

A dear friend who is one of the reasons I originally visited and now live in Germany, visited with her young daughter in September and we showed them some sights and playgrounds. Then my Mom’s cousin and his wife dropped in during their Rhine river cruise and we had a nice Kölsch in the old city.

Plus we celebrated late Summer with Ela’s stepdad at a Sommerfest in his garden, enjoyed dinner and a show with her mother, tours of artists’ studios and historic monuments with friends, and a traditional-style Oktoberfest a friends’ house in a nearby village. This year we wore new Lederhosen and I donned my Bavarian hiking hat, very authentic!

The presidential election in the US continued to loom, I submitted my German tax returns, and my Dad had an important surgery this quarter, at least the latter two for now coming to a promising conclusion.

September & Q3 BuJo Review – Month 9 2024 Creative Journal video on YouTube

Bullet Journaling & Planning

In September I continued to update my Monthly, Weekly, and Daily logs and Annual Collections and set up my October pages in my notebooks.

The above YouTube Video is a flip-through of the month and Q3 in my Seasonal Book, with my goals, glows, media favorites, and events.

I also updated my data tracking in a cumulative Google Sheet, and created a BuJo spread for Self-Care September and a Q3 Review at-a-glance, both below.

Deeper reflection continues as I work on my annual projects in Q4 and start to consider 2025 while also enjoying the present moment.

Q3 Review BuJo spread in my seasonal book: results, highlights, favorites

Teaching & Coaching

In September I hit my stride with a fairly regularly recurring weekly schedule and good energy. It is a delightful challenge to get to know new students and truly a delight to see devoted learners return. Even with a Summer Break at some schools & studios in the mix, the quarter as a whole was very active, with a new record for classes taught since moving to Germany.

Regular Mindful Movement classes in Balletlicious Ballet Barre+ and Yummy Gentle Yoga continued throughout, studio classes in Ballet and Barre a Terre took a two-week break before resuming. School began again and I introduced new elective offerings, also scheming about the Back-to-School into Fall season and the remainder of the year.

There are a couple of coaching slots available this season and I will keep you posted on further offerings as they come together!

Writing & Publishing Articles

In September I published three articles to the blog, for a total of 8 in Quarter 3:

Filming & Sharing Videos

My YouTube Channel and Blog have been where I’ve seen the most growth in visibility and with your help I may be able to reach 1,000 subscribers to the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel before the end of 2024!

I published four videos to the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel in September, bringing the total for Quarter 3 to 14:

August BuJo Review – 2024 Month 8 Creative Journaling Video on YouTube
“School” Supplies Stock-Up Video on YouTube
Notebook, Journal, Planner Lineup Update Video on YouTube
Start-the-Day Circles, Spirals, Roll & Stretch Warmup Video on YouTube

Connecting: Email & Social Media

I sent four weekly Email Newsletters in September, full of value-packed resources for fellow creatives. This brought my Q3 total to 12.

The best way to keep up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing about as well as my favorite work from other creators is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter.

Would truly love to be connected to you there, here, on social media, online or in-person!

Rose Garden at Fort X in Cologne, one of my top locations for Artist Dates

Creative Challenges

Having completed my Alphabet Superset and Camp NaNoWriMo in July, in August I focused on rest and recovery, reading and writing, planning for upcoming challenges and behind-the-scenes development.

Then in September I participated in and shared about Self-Care September, bringing the number of such creative challenges that I took on in Quarter 3 to three, on-track with my vague idea that about one per month is a fun objective.

Self-Care September

Self-Care September – Practicing Exquisite Well-Being in Order to Serve is the article I wrote about how I’ve taken on this self-loving challenge in 2023 & 2024, it’s origins, and continuing healthy habits all year long.

Self-Care September 2024 BuJo spread, shared to Instagram with other tips throughout the month

Twenty-Four 24s in 2024

In July I sent my 24th Email Newsletter and in August I published my 24th YouTube video of 2024, bringing my total of “completed” 24s to 13 in Q4, with Blog Articles published or Books read likely being next (2 more after to reach 24 in both categories!)… Of course I’ll continuing sharing videos and publishing articles and the rest beyond the arbitrary twenty-four goal, this creative challenge is just a playful way to track various metrics I wish to keep an eye on, inspired by Jess/JashiiCorrin on YouTube.

Considering how to structure such an overarching challenge for myself in 2025, I may reduce the number of categories to 20, and raise the actions by one for a catchy “Twenty 25s in 2025.”

24+ in 2024 Bullet Journal Collection in my Annual Book, 6 months in

Media Musings

What caused a sensation in September, in terms of reading, listening, and viewing and some of my picks for Quarter 3:

Books & Reading

A new article I published in August, Summer Fun in or out of the Sun, features some of my all-time favorite hot-weather reads and I’ve found a couple new discoveries this year to add to the list.

Books Read

I completed two novels in September, bringing my quarterly total to 4:

  • Red, White, & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston was a cute alternate-reality political gay romance and fun to read together with my sweetie (we also read another book of theirs last year, One Last Stop), after which we viewed the 2023 film version with a critical eye, and then uncarley’s commentary, also humorous
  • Sandwich by Catherine Newman is one of my favorite books I’ve read so far this year, a story about three generations spending a summer week in a cabin on the cape and also about the beautiful, grotesque, transcendent, profane, hilarious tragedy of life, with a menopausal main character.
An open art studio at Fort X which we toured in September

Listening Highlights

Favorite things heard over the course of the month go here, such as concerts, songs, pieces of music, playlists, podcasts and more.

Music: Songs & Albums

In September I was still enjoying some sweet Summer jams while planning lots of musical fun for Fall. Interestingly, I didn’t record any standout new tracks, just kept hearing all the ear worms by Chappell Roan such as:

Playlists
Straddle side stretch screenshot from my Lithely Leaning video on YouTube

Viewing Highlights

My personal highlights in Quarter 3 viewing were seeing the Trocks live at the Koelner Philharmonie, and the Olympic Opening performances from Paris covered on YouTube (so much dancing and musical talent!) Here’s some of what I saw last month, wrapping up Quarter 3.

Films

September Movies watched were enjoyable and full of action, suitable to the time and place but not necessarily highlights of the quarter or year:

  • “Rebel Ridge”
  • “The Union”
Series

Series on streaming services and so forth I savored in September:

  • Young Rock,” a fictional future bio series about Dwayne Johnson as a presidential candidate telling stories from his youth, is light entertainment
  • Star Trek: Deep Space Nine​,” though far from a new release, is still so ahead of its time and turning into a surprisingly soothing way to unwind before bed
  • The “Monsters: the Lyle and Erik Menendez Story” series on Netflix is disturbing but fascinatingly nuanced in perspective as well and a chilling true crime for those into that sort of thing, which we also followed up with the new The Menendez Brothers documentary
In new Lederhosen with Ela at our friends’ Oktoberfest celebration

Questions for Reflection

  • What summer (or last season) memories are you preserving?
  • How are you planning for a productive fall (or next season) and end-of-year?
  • What will you pursue, and what will you let go?
  • How can I support you in taking flight this year?

Resources for Further Exploration

Special offerings for Autumn, Winter, springing into a New Year, and more coming up soon!

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

To-Enjoy List for Quarter 4 – Blogtoberfest 2024 – finishing the year satisfied

Last December I participated in an annual recap/reflection blog challenge with Judith Peters, aka “Sympatexter” and it inspired me not just to write yearly summary (which I typically undertake in one form or another), but further to publish monthly reflections since then. Sorry to those who don’t speak German, her challenges, blogs, and videos are all auf Deutsch.

Peters also hosts a “Blogtober” blogging challenge in October, so I decided to jump in for that as well, with the theme this month being to write about what I’d like to accomplish and experience in the last quarter before the end of 2024.

So much can happen in 3 months, even in a matter of days or hours, and now is a great opportunity to take stock of resolutions and goals for the year and and decide what we still want to take action towards achieving, and by the same token what is no longer a priority.

On my list below, some items are bigger and long-term goals, some small, some Fall and holiday Bucket-List type items and experiences to savor.

Rufio the cat frolics in the fallen leaves
Rufio the cat loves frolicking in fallen leaves, stalking birds after the hazelnuts

To-Enjoy in Quarter 4

  1. Bake Pumpkin Muffins
  2. Leaf-peeping autumnal walks 🍁 🍂
  3. Send 31 Pieces of Spooky Correspondence
  4. Decorate for Halloween, wear flannel
  5. Sort and deep clean bedroom bookshelves
  6. Autumnal Reading TBR: Letters to a Young Poet, Rebecca, Nancy Drew, The Cat Who mysteries…
  7. Make/Have Doctor Appointments: Dentist, Gynecologist, Dermatologist, Orthopedist…preventive care
  8. Cook up veggie Soups: African Peanut, Carrot Ginger, Tomato-Potato
  9. Increased Visibility & Community: 1,000 YouTube Subscribers, IG Followers, Email Subscribers
  10. Increased Income: magnetize students, clients, get a raise, profit
  11. Financial Fitness: Pay off Credit Card, make a solid plan for 2025
  12. Satisfactory completion of the RAD / Royal Academy of Dance Ballet Exams by my Tanzschule Tanzraum students, sense of accomplishment and improved technique and artistry (Grades 1, 3)
  13. Movement Research – explore the Tanz Archiv in Cologne, improvisation practice, choreograph (below)
  14. Tango improvement, learning to lead and follow: a new style that Ela and I started this year and we’ve since fallen off practicing a bit, but want to keep working on it
  15. “Wine” Weekend Getaway with friends in Germany in October
  16. Plan next trip home, next romantic getaway with Ela
  17. Complete “Twenty-Four 24’s”: Read Books (2 More, see TBR above)
  18. Blog Articles published (4 more)
  19. Poems (13 more)
  20. Letters (13 more), should be no problem with Spooky Correspondence October above
  21. Choreographies (9 more)
  22. Practice Instrument (all 24 – maybe December)
  23. Music Playlists (19 – partial is ok)
  24. Workshops & Challenges (11 – partial is ok)
  25. Print Photos and scrapbook: Family Wedding (August), bikes at garden, cat walk, Oktoberfest party, friends and family visits…
  26. Set up new Bullet Journals: Seasonal/Quarterly Book and Annual BuJo, reflect and celebrate 2024, plan 2025
  27. Savor Glühwein at the Weihnachtsmärkte: mulled wine (ideally at a Christmas Market in Cologne) and hot cocoa are two of my favorite things in Winter
  28. Decorate for Christmas, wear my tacky sweater
  29. Take a hot bath with essential oils

Questions for Reflection

  • What is your Word(s) of the Year?
  • What were your Quarter 3 highlights and lowlights?
  • How do you want to enjoy Quarter 4?
  • What holidays, fall and winter traditions are important to you?
  • How can I best support you this season?

Resources for Further Exploration

The best way to stay up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter.

Glad to connect with you here, there, on social media (IG @ablythecoach), online or in-person!

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

Self-Care September – Practicing Exquisite Well-Being in Order to Serve

I find Self-Care September to be very well-timed to balance what can be a very demanding time of year, with Back-to-School, the end of Quarter 3, the holidays and a new year looming.

In September this year I shared some examples on social media, such as the importance (for me, personally) of bountiful Snacks when on-the-go, feel-good Stretching, stocking up on my Creative Supplies, taking time for Mindful Movement, and cooking up early-fall snacks like Apple Cinnamon Muffins, Chocolate Chip Cookies and Popcorn among other favorites.

Creative planning in my Bullet Journal, here Self-Care September 2024 spread

Self-Care for Community

Self-Care need not be selfish, and in fact the concept stems from community organizing, social activism, and sustaining service to others. A summary of this history can be found in Lenora E. Houseworth’s article The Radical History of Self-Care:

“Trailblazers and former Black Panther leaders Angela Davis and Ericka Huggins adopted mindfulness techniques and movement arts like yoga and meditation while incarcerated. Following their release, they both began championing the power of proper nutrition and physical movement to preserve one’s mental health while navigating an inequitable, sociopolitical system, creating wellness programs for adults and children in recreational centers across the country, in neighborhoods like Brooklyn, New York, and Oakland, California…By the 1980s, activist and writer Audre Lorde amplified the intersectionality of self-care and civil rights as she dealt with cancer, in her book A Burst of Light: and Other Essays, which now stands as a manifesto for the Black female identity.”

It is worthwhile to take a critical look at how corporations/capitalism have co-opted Self-Care and make sure we take on practices that are accessible, authentic, and promote true well-being. We do not have full control over our health and well-being as individuals and it is therefore important to focus on where we can make an impact for ourselves and others.

Self-Care September Structure

I first learned about Self-Care September as a month-long challenge from Laura Burns, @radicalbodylove on Instagram who shared this year: “If you’ve been around a while, you may know that every year I host a month-long celebration of all things SELF CARE related. What you may not know is that it’s really stressful and tiring, and often my own self-care suffers in the process. ⁠

For our 10th year celebrating this amazing topic I’m changing things up! Instead of a daily theme, we’re going to have weekly themes. That way I can practice what I preach and focus on actual self care in my life.”

For daily prompts to inspire your own self-care practices all September (or any month!) long, check out her 2022 Daily Prompts (the 9th annual celebration) or those of prior years.

I’ve come up with lots of ideas in my Bullet Journal Brainstorming spreads for 2023, below, and 2024, above. It’s your time of self-care, so you do you, when you want, how you want!

Self-Care September 2023 Bullet Journal Spread (snuggling in bed!)

Simple Self-Care

Here are a few places to look when seeking to up your own self-care game and feel refreshed. Just start somewhere, start small, fun, and easy and enjoy the benefits. Let me know how I can support you, as well!

Rest, Recovery & Energy Support

Sleep, rest, and relaxation are important elements of self-care as well as promoting and managing our energy. I’ve written on the topic before and will continue to sing the praises of rest to restore our powers of patience, positivity, ability to learn and achieve:

Nourishment

Adequate nutrition is important for dancers and all people, as is a healthy relationship with food and body:

15-Minute Start-the-Day Circles, Spirals, Roll & Stretch Video on YouTube

Mindful Movement

Dancing, yoga, stretching, going for a walk, hike, or bike ride, these all fill my mindful movement cup. For others it pay be participating in favorite sports, martial arts, or going for a swim.

Above, a fresh YouTube video with my 15-Minute Start-the-Day Circles, Spirals, Roll & Stretch warmup, and following more ideas to move you:

Meditation, Breathing, Yoga Nidra

Focusing the breath, a mantra, guided visualization, constructive rest, Yoga Nidra/Non-Sleep Deep Rest and other techniques are wonderful supports for self-care:

Straddle side stretch screenshot from my Lithely Leaning video on YouTube

Mood Music

A particularly accessible way to shift the mood is to put on fitting music. Sometimes I love to wallow in sadness or bittersweet emotion, other times get all pumped with fiery energy or be moved to celebrate life with joy. Some music includes And I’m always down for music that makes me want to dance!

Coaching Support & Accountability

Having trained with Accomplishment Coaching, I have many tools to support well-being, which I use myself and with clients. A free way to receive community support and accountability is to participate in a creative challenge, or maybe you want to experience the power of one-one-one personal life coaching to take your practices from self-care and maintenance to leader- or artist-care:

Rose Garden at Fort X in Cologne, one of my top locations for Artist Dates

Questions for Reflection

  • What practices support your well-being?
  • Which skills or habits are you working on currently? 
  • Which simple steps or structures of support are missing that could make a difference?
  • Which sounds, music, or soundtrack inspire you to study, write, or create?
  • What essential items nourish your creativity and productivity?
  • How do you organize your thoughts, ideas, plans, and studies?
  • How can I support you in self-care, self-love, self-actualization?

Resources for Further Exploration

Self-care poem 2024

Of course, Self-Care is important all year! You can try these ideas out anytime, and I will continue to pass along resources I think you will find valuable.

Upcoming articles and special offerings for a creative season, and until then the best way to keep up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing about as well as my favorite work from other creators is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter.

Glad to connect with you here, there, on social media (IG @ablythecoach), online or in-person!

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

Building Momentum by Seizing the Back-to-School Mood: Ambiance, Supplies & Action

As a lifelong learner, educator and academic at heart, Back-to-School will always be an exciting concept for me. Living based in a temperate climate like I do in Cologne, Germany, as soon as I feel the first chill in the air and sight a colored leaf or Back-to-School sale, I feel a surge of energy, motivation, and curiosity.

Whether we currently find ourselves in an academic environment or not, this time of year is an opportunity we all can seize if it suits us, to invigorate our inspiration to create and grow.

Media to Set the Tone for Learning

Let’s get nerdy and settle in for a cozy but creatively productive autumn! I’m starting here with some musical selections and playlists, then affirmations and mindful movement, dance and yoga to set a motivated tone for learning, growth, and enjoying life this season.

Music

Put on tracks that move you action, help you to focus, or assist you in feeling all the feelings. It could be music to evoke a mood, soundscapes to relax, or noise-cancelling to turn down the volume on the outside world.

Perhaps songs from my Savoring September or Mood Music for Creativity and Productivity Playlists may fill the bill (I’ve particularly been enjoying Writing on a dark academia train recently!):

Savoring September music playlist on YouTube
Mood Music for Creativity and Productivity Playlist on YouTube

Positive Affirmations for Growth

Get in a growth mindset with affirmations you can get behind that feel good:

Limber up for Learning

Below are a few ideas for yoga poses and dance sequences to prepare the body for focus, learning, and creativity.

Take a peek at my Autumn Equinox Magic – Rituals to Romance the Transition from Summer to Fall Article and Wonderful Warmers and other Playlists on YouTube for heaps more inspirational movement!

Yoga & Dance

“Back-to-School” Yoga on YouTube flow for balance and concentration, with poem “Homework” by Jane Yolen
Fall Forest Savasana Yoga floor practice on YouTube is relaxing and stretchy
Autumn Leaves Port de Bras on YouTube is a balletic seasonal dance of the arms

Supplies to Unleash Creativity

I’ve recently been sharing my creative supplies and EDC/Everyday Carry essentials, so along those lines, here are some of the items I’ve recently stocked up on to fuel my writing & creativity.

This is not a big “haul” or to encourage overconsumption, as I’m not looking to greatly expand my collection of stationery and supplies. I just needed ways to keep my creative process going smoothly, particularly upgrades and re-stocking writing, dancing, and teaching tools and have sought thoughtful solutions.

“School” Supplies Stock-Up Video on YouTube

Pens, Paper & Tech

These key items will help me accomplish my back-to-school, fall, and end-of-year plans:

  • Microphone: I recently upgraded to a Rode Wireless ME to improve sound quality of online teaching and video recordings. My old mic died a while back and I researched a solution/upgrade that should provide clearer audio, always learning and improving when it comes to online teaching and coaching.
  • A replacement iPhone Screen meant a new iPhone for A Blythe Coach, including Pro-grade camera, pairable with new Mic, above, and overall better functioning for business
  • Black cotton dancey Socks: I don’t mention them in the video, but I did stock up on this staple as well, my current favorite dance teaching footwear because they are comfortable, versatile for ballet, barre, conditioning, modern dance and yoga, and readily washable
  • LAMY AL-star Fountain Pen 🖊️ yes I am now embarking on a fountain pen “journey” as a result of my love of writing and thirst for ink. I first bought this one, blacked out, then got the one below, switched this nib from Medium to Extra Fine to be usable in a variety of situations (fine-liner for Bullet Journaling, scribbling notes on stickies, conserving ink on Morning Pages, different paper types). I chose LAMY pens because of their excellent reputation for writing utensils of lasting quality, made in Germany, so well-priced and conveniently located for me. Sold along with a decent array of stationery in my local department store unpackaged and manufactured efficently for less waste, I did buy them new but hope to get year of use out of them, replace disposable pens and cartridges, and use a converter system and bottles of ink for maximum economy and sustainability
  • LAMY Vista Fountain Pen because I want to write in multiple colors and thicknesses at one time and this one I plan to leave a juicy Medium – the “demonstrator” clear barrel looks so pretty with ink sloshing around inside of it!
  • LAMY Converters for refilling the pens using bottled ink, since the goal is to make my writing more sustainable in this way versus plastic cartridges or the ballpoint refills I was previously using
  • A couple bottles of Octopus Fluids Document Ink because I prefer permanent, waterproof ink in case of rain or other life events which have certainly befallen my journals in the past and this particular brand has a good reputation and is readily accessible to me in Germany, starting with Black & Violett colors.
  • Looking for a fountain-pen friendly Moleskine Cahier Notebook alternative I wound up with an A5 Rhodia dot-grid notebook with Clarefontaine paper to try out as my next seasonal Bullet Journal notebook (November+) and if it goes well I’ll switch over for my annual book for 2025 as well…

New Notebook Lineup

Speaking of writing, note-taking, planning, tracking, memory-keeping, teaching and coaching resource-wrestling, here’s my current journal lineup:

Notebook Lineup Update Video on YouTube

Your “School” Supplies

In the market for your own Back-to-School Stock-up and looking for quality tools? Consider these professional recommendations:

Create Your Course & Curriculum

You’re an adult, so you get to choose to study and pursue whatever topics you like! Maybe you’re looking for ideas for your own fall learning, you wish to write your heart out this season, dabble in a different techniques, or dive deep into a subject:

Fall 2024 Topics of Study

As for me, here are some particular areas of focus I’m excited to get into this semester:

  • Reading: Nancy Drew, The Cat Who and other cozy mysteries, my new poetry collection A Toast to Autumn by Alexis Jean, alchemy and magic
  • Writing: Articles, Stories/Memoir, Poems, Letters, Morning Pages, Journaling
  • Dance: Tango, RAD Syllabus (Grade 1,3), Tanzarchiv, Barre a Terre and ballet/dance conditioning
  • Coaching: Well-Being, Leader Care, Artist Care
  • Creating: Videos, Choreographies, Playlists…
  • Cooking, Baking, and Eating: Muffins, Cookies, Popcorn, Soups, Cocoa
  • Getting Outside: Walks, Bicycle Rides, Leaf-Peeping, Birdwatching (migrating geese and other wildlife)
I brainstorm ideas, projects, and seasonal bucket lists on my dry-erase board

Dark Academia Vibes

Getting into the aesthetic of the season, whatever that means to you, can help adopt a positive attitude about the change of weather. For me, getting all cozy when the days are growing cooler and darker goes a long way toward my mental health, productivity, creativity, and enjoyment of life.

It seems I’m several years or more late to the specific aesthetic or subculture of dark academia, but looking back at my life, I’ve often been on the fringes in practice. Jane Eyre, Nancy Drew and then Agatha Christie mysteries, and Lillian Jackson Braun’s The Cat Who cozy mysteries (thanks, Tutu) were among my selections as a child. Fall, especially, seems to be a time of mystery and murder, but also being a sensitive soul, I still tend toward consuming the cozy kind)

A fanciful youth, I romanticized study, writing, letters, poetry and as an adult I’ve proven to be a lifelong learner and academic with a terminal degree.

This year, dark academia is absolutely how I’ll be romanticizing Autumn (reading, writing, learning, pens!), inspired in part by:

But you may wish to choose another aesthetic or subculture to romanticize your life and inspire you to action in alignment with your goals.

One of my new LAMY fountain pens currently inked up in purple, morning pages

Questions for Reflection

  • What’s on your Back-to-School supply list?
  • Which sounds, music, or soundtrack inspire you to study, write, or create?
  • What essential items nourish your creativity and productivity?
  • How do you organize your thoughts, ideas, plans, and studies?
  • What’s your “anti-haul” or what do you NOT need to flourish creatively?

Resources for Further Exploration

Thank you for reading, I am glad you are here and I look forward to hearing about your own favorite fall rituals and traditions!

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she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

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An August Month – 2024 Month 8 Review

Summer Pause was fully in effect, we celebrated a family wedding, I got sick, then recovered just in time for Back-to-School in Cologne.

Wolkenburg with Ela on the red carpet, lovely wedding reception location in Cologne!

August is Late Summer

Here in Cologne, Germany it felt like summer finally really arrived in August, with mostly hot days and some storms. Wonderful!

I was so grateful to be able to thaw out, dress scantily and lounge in the warmth of the sun, as well as retreat to the air conditioning of the dance studio to move.

The first part of the month was packed, then summer holidays began proper and in classic educator style, I immediately came down with a nasty cold, which I would fight for the rest of the break. At the end of the month, returned to teaching almost everywhere.

Well enough during the break though to witness the marriage ceremony of my girlfriend’s sister and their gorgeous reception, including excellent food and drink, merrymaking, and participation my first Kurdish wedding dances.

Whenever we could over the course of the month, we got outside, for walks, to picnic in the park, breathe in the rose garden, even just to sit on the windowsill and watch the neighborhood go by, with Rufio sniffing and exploring and rolling in the dirt on her leash.

World events swirled and I also submitted my German tax returns with Ela’s help, always a relief and adulting accomplishment!

August BuJo Review – 2024 Month 8 Creative Journal flip video on YouTube

Bullet Journaling & Planning

In August I continued to update my Monthly, Weekly, and Daily logs and Annual Collections and set up my September pages. It was a delight to be in my purple spreads all month, with lavish lavender, rich velvety eggplant, lively lilac and all my favorite colors as decoration, suitable to an elegant and regal tone.

The above YouTube Video is a flip-through of the month in my Seasonal Book, with my goals, glows, media favorites, and events of August.

Teaching & Coaching

The beginning of August was chock full with end-of-schoolyear teaching, jumping in to guest teach for colleagues, and wrapping up one semester to prepare for the next. Then true holidays began and my body demanded complete rest by getting sick, but thankfully I could take the time to recover before returning to studios and schools.

Regular Mindful Movement classes in Balletlicious Ballet Barre+ and Yummy Gentle Yoga continued throughout, studio classes in Ballet and Barre a Terre took a two-week break before resuming. School began again and I introduced new elective offerings, also scheming about the Back-to-School into Fall season and the remainder of the year.

I currently have a couple of coaching slots available and will keep you posted on further offerings as they come together!

Writing & Publishing Articles

In August I published three articles to the blog:

Filming & Sharing Videos

I published five videos to the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel in August:

Jolly July – Monthly BuJo Review Video on YouTube
One Book July – Mind the Gap Video on YouTube
Lithely Leaning Seated Side Stretch Video on YouTube
EDC Creative + Journal Kit Video on YouTube
Seaside, Oceanic, & Watery Inspirations Video on YouTube

Connecting: Email & Social Media

I sent four weekly Email Newsletters in August, full of value-packed resources for fellow creatives. Took a bit of a break in posting to social media during staycation/sickness, then returned to sharing updates and inspiration to Instagram and Facebook, though I haven’t been back on TikTok since the Alphabet Superset.

The best way to keep up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing about as well as my favorite work from other creators is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter.

Would truly love to be connected to you there, here, on social media, online or in-person!

Rose Garden at Fort X in Cologne, one of my top locations for Artist Dates

Creative Challenges

Having completed my Alphabet Superset and Camp NaNoWriMo in July, in August I focused on rest and recovery, reading and writing, planning for upcoming challenges and behind-the-scenes development.

Twenty-Four 24s in 2024

On August 23rd I published my twenty-fourth YouTube video of 2024, bringing my total of “completed” 24s to 13, with Blog Articles likely being next… Of course I’ll continuing sharing videos and the rest, this metric is just a playful way to track my creative priorities, inspired by Jess/JashiiCorrin on YouTube.

24+ in 2024 Bullet Journal Collection in my Annual Book, 6 months in

Media Musings

Assorted August entertainments:

Books & Reading

A new article I published in August, Summer Fun in or out of the Sun, features some of my all-time favorite hot-weather reads and I’ve found a couple new discoveries this year to add to the list.

Books Read

I completed one novel in August, continued reading other works of fiction alone and with Ela, as well as working on my current nonfiction picks:

  • Roomies by Christina Lauren was another solid rom-com by this writing pair and I particularly liked the musical theatre / Broadway setting, the gay uncles, and growth of creative voice in the main character

Listening Highlights

Favorite things heard over the course of the month go here, such as concerts, songs, pieces of music, playlists, podcasts and more.

Music: Songs & Albums

Sweet Summer jams, some old, some new:

Playlists
Straddle side stretch screenshot from my Lithely Leaning video on YouTube

Viewing Highlights

Here’s some of what I saw last month.

Films

August Movies watched:

  • Deadpool and Wolverine” was the perfect silly summer film to see at the cinema (with a large popcorn), especially the Backstreet Boys dance fight scene
  • Wicked Little Letters” we watched at home, based on a true story and is a cute and wild tale of inappropriate correspondence and false accusations
Series

Series on streaming services and so forth:

  • Poker Face” Comedy-Drama Series continued to be one of my favorite fictional shows of the year, with great acting, plot, music, direction…
  • The Umbrella Academy” is certainly a dark and twisted, but action packed series
  • Young Rock,” a fictional future bio series about Dwayne Johnson as a presidential candidate telling stories from his youth, is light entertainment
Appetizers, my favorite Rose (Burggarten) with Ela at her sister’s wedding reception

Questions for Reflection

  • What summer (or last season) memories are you preserving?
  • How are you planning for a productive fall (or next season) and end-of-year?
  • What will you pursue, and what will you let go?
  • How can I support you in taking flight this year?

Resources for Further Exploration

Special offerings for Back-to-School, Autumnal Inspirations, and more coming up soon!

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

Seaside, Oceanic & Watery Inspirations – Dance, Yoga, Music, Poetry & Creativity

Splish splash! How refreshing is a cooling water theme in summer? Though watery ocean, lake, river, and rain concepts can ignite the imagination yearlong, I find them particularly fun in the warmer months, for children’s and all-ages dance, yoga, meditation and visualization, poetic and artistic inspiration. This is a (growing, dynamic, never comprehensive) collection of resources I personally treasure and love to share as a teaching artist but may also be useful to families with children, other creatives, or to delight your own inner artist child.

Seaside, Oceanic & Watery Inspirations Video on YouTube
Flowing with the wind & waves in Arabesque at the sea in Kailua-Kona, HI

Dance Like Water

Rain Dance

Raindrop Creative Ballet Port de Bras Video on YouTube
In Time of Silver Rain” Poem by Langston Hughes read by Blythe Video on YouTube
A pair of swan friends on the Rhine in Mosel

Lakeside Swans

Seaside Stretch

Seaside Creative Dance Stretch Video on YouTube

Flowing Yoga & Meditation

Water-Related Yoga & Dance Poses & Shapes

  • Waves
  • Boat, Row Your Boat
  • Fish
  • Starfish
  • Dolphin
  • Crab
  • Turtle
  • Starfish
  • Mermaid
  • Seal
  • Clamshell, Mollusks & other Sea Shells
  • Snail, Hermit Crab
  • Sea Anemone

Flow Like Water Yoga Practice

Flow Like Water 20-Minute Yoga Video on YouTube

Float Your Boat Pose & Bridge

Beatific Boats Video on YouTube
Buoyant Bridges Video on YouTube

Beachy Books & Reading

Books

A couple of my favorite beachy books: Gift from the Sea and A Day at the Beach

Poems

  • “In Time of Silver Rain” by Langston Hughes (recorded reading above)
  • “Tropical Fish” by David D. Horowitz
  • “Each Wing Alive” by David D. Horowitz
  • The Owl and the Pussycat” by Edward Lear
  • “Penguin Love” by Donald Kentop
Ocean, Sea, & Water-Theme Bullet Journal Spread brainstorming tools & resources

Water-Inspired Music

Ela and Blythe scamper in the sand on Coronado Beach

Questions for Reflection

  • What are your favorite watery movements, songs, poems, books?
  • Which element(s) inspire you?
  • What watery creations are you moved to make?

Resources for Further Exploration

Spent time on the beach at home this spring and am still moved by it this summer

Special events and resources for Back-to-School, Fall and more coming up soon! The best way to keep up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing about as well as my favorite work from other creators is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter. Would love to be connected to you there, on social media, online or in-person.

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

Summer Fun in or out of the Sun: a Bucket List of Hot-Weather Hits

I find it easier to enjoy the spring and summer, as the warmer weather lends itself to many activities I enjoy, such as time outdoors, bicycling, picnicking, and eating fresh produce. So the game is not to try to make the best of more challenging times, but to seize the sunny fleeting days wherever I can and not miss out on my favorite bits before they’re gone again.

Less decoration and dressing up, more dressing down, decluttering, deep-cleaning, taking in the natural beauty of one of my very favorite seasons.

Looking for summery inspiration? Here is a collection of resources and activities that might provide a jumping-off point for your own longer-day adventures.

Summer Fun Bucket List Brainstorm in my Bullet Journal

Seasonal experiences such as reading, listening, viewing, tasty treats, crafting and creative themes delight my students and also my own inner Artist Child! When I sample a few of my favorite experiences of the Fall (and each successive season), I feel I have fully enjoyed and made the best of this time of year, am better ready to embrace the change that continues to come.

Experiences & Traditions

Generally speaking, for me August and September are about “Back-to-School” and establishing rhythms and routines as we shift from a more leisurely summer to the activity of Autumn, October is for Halloween, and November is about Thanksgiving. There are other special days in the mix as well, which do you honor and which have I omitted?

  • Hike, walk
  • Rose Garden and Botanical Gardens
  • Sketching and Watercolors
  • Blowing Bubbles
  • Sidewalk Chalk drawings
  • Bicycle Tour or lazy ride
  • Frisbee
  • Summer Reading
  • Picnics and time at the Park
  • Swim and Beaching
  • Fireworks
  • Healthy habits
  • Travel
  • Ride a roller coaster, visit a theme park
A snapshot during the Dyke March demonstration, CSD/PRIDE Weekend 2024

A Few Favorite Summer Holidays

  • PRIDE Month is June internationally and Cologne’s Christopher Street Day celebration is in July
  • Strawberry Moon, Thunder Moon, Sturgeon Moon
  • Loving Day June 12th
  • Juneteenth June 19th
  • World Refugee Day June 20th is also my birthday
  • Fathers Day is right around the Solstice and my birthday in June
  • Summer Solstice or Litha in the Northern Hemisphere is around June 21st, Lughnasadh/Lammas August 1st
  • Nonbinary People’s Day July 14th
  • American Independence Day July 4th
  • Disability Pride Month is July
  • Camp NaNoWriMo July; One Book July; Junk Journal July, etc.
  • August 8th 8.8 Lion’s Gate Portal / International Cat Day
  • Labor Day in America is the first Monday in September
  • Strawberry Moon, Thunder/Buck Moon, Sturgeon Moon
  • Gemini, Cancer, and Leo Season

Themes

For personal and creative exploration, alone or with children

  • Fireworks
  • Camping, Forest, Mountains
  • Walking and Hiking
  • Travel, Vehicles, Packing
  • Water, Ocean, Lake, The Beach, Swimming, Sea Animals, “Under the Sea”
  • Pirates
  • The Zoo, Park, Botanical Garden, etc.
  • Safari Animals
  • Creativity and Energy
  • Cooling Off, Calming Down
  • Back-to-School
  • Getting to Know Each Other, Making Friends
  • Ground Rules: Be Safe/Careful, Be Respectful/Kind, Have Fun
  • “Little Red Riding Hood,” paying attention, exercising caution
Warm weather in Cologne means trips to our neighborhood gelato spot

Tasty Treats

Food & Eating is one of my personal favorite ways to celebrate every season, holiday, and life in general! Not necessarily the most ambitious cook or baker, but I’ve got a few standbys that I make myself, others I just buy and enjoy that others have prepared.

In summer, naturally, it’s all about the fresh produce and eating outside!

Eats

Picnics, potlucks, outdoor eating wild, at open-air restaurants, while traveling and at home make for a delicious summer.

  • Strawberries
  • Strawberry Shortcake, Cake, Pie
  • Blueberries
  • Blueberry Muffins, Pancakes, Muesli
  • Fresh Fruits: especially Berries as mentioned and every kind, Nectarines and other stone fruits, Watermelon and other melons
  • Salads & fresh Veggies
  • Popsicles, Ice Cream, Frozen Treats
  • S’mores
  • Stockbrot (bread on a stick on the open fire)

Cool Drinks

A handful of my favorite refreshers:

  • Smoothies
  • Rhubarberschorle (Sparkling Rhubarb Soda)
  • Radler (Lemonade and Beer, the taste for which I developed in Germany)
  • Iced Coffee & Tea

Yoga & Meditation

I have created a number of stand-alone practices that are appropriate for Summer, as well as a series, my Yogalicious 5-Day ReTREAT.

Birds of Summer 30-Minute Yoga Practice
Birds of Summer Yoga Practice 30-minute movement session Video on YouTube
Bumble Bee Breath
Humming Bee Breath Video on YouTube
Beach Bonfire Guided Elements Visualization
A Blythe Coach Podcast 038: Beach Bonfire Guided Elements Visualization on Spotify

Ballet & Dance

Seasonally-appropriate a la carte dances and movements as well as more involved challenges and series.

Summery Movements

Firework Festive Ballet Port de Bras Video on YouTube
Butterfly Creative Ballet Port de Bras Video on YouTube
Butterfly Catching Dance Warmup Video on YouTube
Seaside Seated Creative Dance Floor Stretch Video on YouTube

Boats https://youtu.be/wUxgh7CbG8g

Caterpillar Walks https://youtu.be/Ad-M6rDzW3A

Dance Challenges and “Intensive”

Screenshot of my Camp NaNoWriMo July 2024 “winner” badge

Creativity

Energy tends to be high in summer with the long days, so it may be a great time to create something (although R&R are also totally legit!).

Writing

In addition to annual fiction writing challenge National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) in November, Camp NaNoWriMo takes place in April and July. These “camps” support new and experienced writers in reaching personal creative writing goals and the summer can be a good time to get some writing done.

Summer provides a wonderful vantage point of perspective, through pausing and possibly changing location, situated at the midpoint of the year. It’s convenient for me that the Summer Solstice and my birthday in June well align with taking a look back at the first 6 months of the year and ahead at the next 6. There is still time to do what we dreamed for this year, but it is time to review, reflect, and take action.

I shared my recent midyear reflection in the Juicy June & Quarter Two Flew – 2024 Month 6 Review, Q2 & First-Half Wrap-Up article, which was one of the monthly reflections that Judith Peters inspired me to share during her Jahresrueckblick / Annual Review Blog challenge.

Exploring Media

Other types of art and crafts can also fill the bill, some of which you can explore in my Ignite the Spark of Creativity Challenge, which features six different creative modalities in an approachable way to blow away any blocks you might be facing.

Maybe there’s another artistic or creative challenge you feel moved to take on this season, an assortment of which I discuss in the article, Charming Chosen Challenges – creative ways to try out or jumpstart a habit.

Listening

Music

Summer jams old and new, lyrical and instrumental, set the beat for the season.

Playlists By Me

Songs & Pieces of Music

Podcasts about Summertime

It’s a bicycle party at the community garden in Cologne

Reading

Ever since the days of three months off of school, lazy days, and a Summer Reading List, immersing myself in other worlds through a book has been an integral part of savoring the season. Whether sprawled on the sand for a beach read or fantasizing about travel to exotic locales on staycation, the written word always delights me.

Books

Novels

Nonfiction

Picture Book

A Day at the Beach by Mircea Vasiliu is one of my favorite children’s books that takes place on a summery day by the sea, with appealing images that have stuck with me through the years.

Poems

I see that I have yet to record Summer Poetry Favorites video! Started the series with Winter and Spring, will get back on completing the set.

Until then, here are a few choice selections:

  • When the Roses Speak, I Pay Attention” by Mary Oliver
  • While I am Writing a Poem to Celebrate Summer, the Meadowlark Begins to Sing” by Mary Oliver
  • Summer Warmth” by Helen Cohen
  • Liberty” by Janet S. Wong
Fresh blueberries in my muesli, smoothies, muffins, and everywhere in summer!

Viewing

Summer-suited Films, Television Series, and YouTube videos. This section could use more ideas, I know there are more…

Movies

I tend not to watch quite as many movies in summer due to more daylight, time outside, and such adventures. However on a really hot day, it can be lovely to escape indoors to the cinema!

  1. “Call Me By Your Name”
  2. “French Kiss”

Television Series

  • “White Lotus”

YouTube

Questions for Reflection

  • What sounds, flavors, and feelings evoke summer for you?
  • Which holidays do you celebrate in the summer?
  • What will have you feeling satisfied at the end of the season?

Resources for Further Exploration

Special events and resources for Back-to-School, Fall and more coming up soon! The best way to keep up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing about as well as my favorite work from other creators is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter. Would love to be connected to you there, on social media, online or in-person.

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

Jolly July – 2024 Month 7 Review

Welcome to a look back at my life last month. Having passed the midpoint of the year, it was a natural time to process the first six months. Things that run on a school year schedule also reach the transition into summer vacation, which means frantic activity, then leisure as well as planning for the next cycle.

(Mostly) Jovial July

July was joyous as well as jammed for me this year, with lots of teaching (my own and covering for colleagues), creating (Alphabet Superset, Camp NaNo, One Book July oh my!), family news both “good” and “bad,” queerness (CSD, the Trocks), political developments (as a US Citizen living in Germany, recent events such as one presidential candidate being shot at, one stepping down, a third stepping up are wild to see!), and summer outdoorsiness between storms.

Highlights in my personal life were witnessing the live performance of a world-famous company I have always admired and the 3-Day celebration that was Cologne Pride / Christopher Street Day. Grateful to be well for all of that, lowlights of the month included dicey health news from my parents, with whom I gratefully in close contact.

Dyke March Cologne 2024 was a blast – with Ela in front of the Dom

Bullet Journaling & Planning

In July I continued to update my Monthly, Weekly, and Daily logs and Annual Collections and set up my July and August pages.

The below YouTube Video is a flip-through of July in my Seasonal Book, a new one, and my own goals, glows, media favorites, and events.

Jolly July – Monthly BuJo Review Video on YouTube

Teaching & Coaching

July was action-packed in the area of teaching dance, as I held regular Mindful Movement classes in Balletlicious Ballet Barre+ and Yummy Gentle Yoga, studio classes in Ballet and Barre a Terre, and substitute taught for colleagues. As the month came to a close, things mellowed for 2-week summer pause at Tanzschule Tanzraum. My A Blythe Coach live online classes will continue to meet, with all locations returning at the end of August.

Writing & Publishing Articles

In July I published two (big, meaty) articles to the blog:

Filming & Sharing Videos

I published four videos to the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel in July:

Simple Seated Port de Bras – Ballet Upper Body Movements Video on YouTube
Juicy June – Monthly BuJo Review Video on YouTube, with appearance of Rufio the cat
Twenty-Four 24s in 2024 – 6 Month Update Video on YouTube
Alphabet Superset Choreography Compilation Video on YouTube – music copyright issues, stay tuned for re-edit with YouTube Music for a whole new effect!

Connecting through Email & Social Media

I sent four weekly Email Newsletters in July, full of value-packed resources for fellow creatives. Not so active on Instagram and Facebook this month, or TikTok after posting my Alphabet Superset micro video choreos. But I did post about a few major events, including Nonbinary People’s Day/Week.

The best way to keep up-to-date on everything I’m coaching, teaching, creating and sharing about as well as my favorite work from other creators is to subscribe to my weekly email newsletter.

Would love to be connected to you there, here, on social media, online or in-person!

Creative Challenges

Lots opportunities for artistic action in July!

Alphabet Superset

The first week in July I completed my Alphabet Superset Challenge!

Campbell Walker, aka Struthless, launched the creative challenge in 2023, and in order to cover one per week with 26 letters in the English Alphabet, it has continued well into 2024. For many of the participants of whom I am aware, including Walker himself, the challenge is still in progress and I’m cheering them on! Search #alphabetsuperset to see many brilliant contributions from talented people the world over.

Overall a valuable and interesting project, there are a number of lessons learned that I shared in my Alphabet Superset Creative Challenge Recap 2023-2024: Learning from Filming 26 Micro Video Choreos on TikTok A-Z, which also has links to each of my micro choreo videos.

So, in July I posted one final micro video choreos to TikTok to finish this challenge:

  • “Z” Zig-zagging Zen by the Zug
Tip my hat and take a bow, finished the Alphabet Superset first thing in July

Camp NaNoWriMo

I came up with a few more Memoir story ideas and a new draft, exceeding my 1,000 goal for Camp this year. Appreciate the opportunity to take another look at the area of creative writing in my life regularly during “Camp” and NaNoWriMo in November, whether I take on a formal challenge or not. Lots of motivating free resources and community, if you write or want to, I highly recommend it!

I love that in order to “win” Camp NaNo, you achieve a goal you set for yourself

One Book July

July in the planning community means #onebookjuly an annual challenge hosted by a few creators whose original concept is to attempt to cut back to one book and one pen for the month for all their writing/notetaking/planning/journaling purposes.

Although I don’t aspire to just one book (notebook, journal, planner), as my system is already simple enough for me, this challenge can be a good one for folks for whom complexity has become an issue. This year’s theme, “Mind the Gap” really appealed to me, as I do my best to fill my books completely, fully utilizing the paper and space the way I seek to use my other creative materials.

Memory-keeping, photos, quotes, poems (mine and other authors), ephemera, decorations, lists and brainstorming, I came up with lots of ways to fill my own gaps, some examples of which you can see in the following video:

One Book July – Mind the Gap – Creative Journaling Challenge Video on YouTube

Twenty-Four 24s in 2024

In July I sent my 24th Email, bringing me to fully half, 12, of my “Twenty-Four 24s” completed and counting!

As introduced in the Twenty-Four 24s in 2024 article and with a First Half update in the video above under “Filming and Sharing Videos.” For each of the 24 chosen metrics I intend to make at least 24 contributions, in this way consistently supporting my major goals and most valued priorities.

24+ in 2024 Bullet Journal Collection in my Annual Book, 6 months in

Media Musings

Jovial July entertainments:

Books & Reading

Books Read

I only completed reading one novel in July and plan to continue sharing other reading favorites, such as blogs, email newsletters and so forth in real time in my almost-weekly email newsletter and quarterly here on the blog:

  •  Age of Vice by Deepti Kapoor: despite it being very potentially triggering, with gritty, difficult themes–it’s an epic tale of a gangster family and people whose lives they change forever that takes place in India–I found it brilliantly written with compelling and complex characters. Definitely a top fiction read of the year.

Listening Highlights

Favorite things heard over the course of the month go here, such as concerts, songs, pieces of music, playlists, podcasts and more.

Music: Songs & Albums

Sweet Summer jams, some old, some new:

  • Shimmer Shimmer” song by Moxxy, “your new glow up soundtrack!”
  • Vacation” song by Priya Ragu, who I saw live in Cologne last year and then heard on the radio in Hawai’i in May
  • Texas Hold ‘Em” by Beyonce
  • Rush” song by Troye Sivan
  • Lunch” song by Billie Eilish
  • Pink Pony Club” by Chappell Roan
Playlists
Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo Program, us at Koelner Philharmonie

Viewing Highlights

Here are my Performances, Films & Series, and so forth seen last month.

Live Performances & Exhibitions
  • “Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo” Dance Concert, Koelner Philharmonie, a surprise birthday gift from my girlfriend’s mother, which she and Ela’s aunt attended with us. A world-famous all-male ballet parody troupe with legitimate dancing and comedy chops. They lived up to my high expectations, I wept with laughter and clapped my hands off with appreciation for their brilliance.
Sports Events
  • Euro Men’s Football/Soccer Cup: since it was England vs. Spain, we weren’t very invested in who won, but it was an exciting game to watch with friends nonetheless.
  • ​Paris Summer Olympics Opening Festivities​: this event had as much to do with music, dance, and history as with sport and I was dazzled. Had to fast-forward through the hours of the countries filing through on boats along the Seine, majestic though it was, and was annoyed by the commentary interrupting the performances (try to find a version to watch without it if you can), but the many musical and dance performance features were an absolute spectacle, showcasing artistic excellence of so many diverse and interacting kinds.
Films

July Movies watched:

  • “The Lobster” film was every bit as bizarre as I had heard, darkly humorous
  • “Dungeons and Dragons” film was actually very cute and entertaining
Series

Series on Netflix, etc.:

  • Poker Face” Comedy-Drama Series might turn out to be my favorite fictional show of the year. Great acting, plot, music, direction…
  • The Boyfriend” series is a gay Japanese dating reality show, interesting to watch and such a completely different experience from
  • “Princess Charming” series, a lesbian German dating reality show. This one we honestly don’t watch in full, rather the reactions of Annika, who humorously summarizes the action and selects relevant clips.
Hot weather in July called for cool ice cream and drinks – here local gelato

Questions for Reflection

  • What remains on my Summer bucket list?
  • Which projects am I choosing to focus on in the second half of the year?
  • What plans are coming together for the coming month, quarter, season?
  • How can I support you in taking flight this year?

Resources for Further Exploration

Special events for Summer Fun, Back-to-School and more coming up soon!

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
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Creator of A Blythe Coach @ablythecoach
helping multi-passionate creatives dance through their difficulties,
taking leaps of faith into fulfillment through coaching, yoga & dance education

Alphabet Superset Creative Challenge Recap 2023-2024: Learning from Filming 26 Micro Video Choreos on TikTok A-Z

In the first week of July, I completed my Alphabet Superset, publishing my “Z” micro video choreo to TikTok!

Campbell Walker, aka Struthless, launched the creative challenge in 2023, and in order to cover one 26 letters in the English Alphabet per week (with breaks included but in the end not sufficient), it has continued well into 2024.

For many of the participants I’ve seen, and including Walker himself, the challenge is still in progress.

Overall a valuable and interesting project, there are a number inspiring experiences and lessons learned in the process which I will share in this reflection.

Tip my hat and take a bow, my Alphabet Superset is complete!

The Alphabet Superset Challenge

The time was ripe for a new creative challenge, and this one crossed my path synchronistically, offering lots of structures of support for all artists and creators regardless of medium or experience level, it promised a rampantly productive time.

I posted my participation announcement blog, Creative Next Steps: Alphabet Superset Challenge – My Entrée to TikTok Dance (or whatever media you so choose) during A-Week, Monday the 4th of September and included Walker’s invitation video and links to his supportive resources.

Making art together in real time was powerful, but keep in mind that you can also begin anytime.

Going in, I knew this challenge would be a big commitment and that I’d need a lot of accountability, flexibility, and creativity to complete it.

I also announced my intention to do the Superset in this video on Instagram and assembled my resources and supplies.

UPDATE: Alphabet Superset Choreo Compilation with YouTube music (copyright ok)

My 2023-4 Alphabet Superset

Having set out with what I thought was a relatively modest, “easy” and manageable concept for my superset, it was still no easy feat to come up with so many differently-themed works.

Though they are small, imperfect sketches, a lot of thought went into each one and I grew so much in the process.

Here’s what I declared for my own Alphabet Superset Project and Process:

  • Brainstorming concept, ideas, music on dry erase board, in morning pages, digitally in Evernote and on social media, in the dance studio and everywhere
  • Record 10-20 Second Weekly Small Space/Site-Specific Video Micro-Choreographies each to the theme of a letter of the English Alphabet
  • Share to TikTok (@blythelydancing), add music, further share to Instagram and Facebook, eventually YouTube (all @ablythecoach) as a playful form of accountability and to build community with other creators within the project.
“A” mind-map brainstorm, a nice big dry-erase board facilitated the work

Brainstorming & Free-Association

Dry erase board, Evernote, daily journaling and morning pages, email newsletter, other creators on social media… all helped me come up with and bounce ideas around, stay present and motivated.

I simply used iPhone to record the dances, a little stand to hold it up, and tried out various dance shoes and socks, outfits, backgrounds, angles, locations and frames and surfaces, techniques and styles.

Ballet being my “home base” for dance, a couple Books also supported my creative process:

Musical Inspiration and Accompaniment

Choosing music for the tracks was fun, overwhelming, and difficult! I took inspiration from even more songs and pieces of music than I could ultimately use in the finished product. Old and new, from classical ballet to modern jazz, contemporary, electronic, and more.

At first, I recorded with music playing from another device as I am accustomed to in the studio, theatre, and at home. But on TikTok, things work differently. After one or two micro video choreos, I got in the rhythm of recording in silence, a possible track or rhythm in my head only, then to be edited with music from the collection on TikTok.

I found that this helps drive views to the videos, depending on if the song chosen is trending, but am still confused as to the legality of sampling the music in this way. Initially assuming that everything listed on TikTok is “available” for such use, I later found that the clips might be muted or blocked depending on the music choice. Lots more to discover!

Two music playlists developed from the project:

2023-2024 Alphabet Superset Playlist
Alphabet Superset 2023-2024 Music Tracks Playlist on YouTube has all 26 songs I used
ABC Choreo Music Ideas Playlist
ABC Choreo Music Ideas Music Playlist on YouTube includes many more dancey tracks

Purpose of Participation Achieved

Although dance is my specialty, this format is outside of my comfort zone, so I wanted to use the motivation and shared risk-taking joie de vivre to propel me to continue to be a learner in the form, along with my students. I experimented with TikTok for the first time, explored what’s possible with the vertical/portrait smart phone video orientation, as well as size-, location-, and viewpoint-specific choreography, and popular music.

Got more current on today’s dances, while also working to define my own artistic voice.

What I Learned Participating

Taking part in a structured creative challenge is full of juicy potential and Walker provided some really fun and helpful worksheets as well as his own videos on YouTube for support along the way. I really appreciate that!

Using the hashtags generated positive community and there are a few new artists I follow and glean inspiration from due to the challenge.

It paid off to have many structures of support set up, such as my Bullet Journal, Dry-Erase Board, Morning Pages Notebook, stationery supplies, using a variety of settings to inspire movement, leaning on my Real-Life Community and Online Community (IG, TT, Email Newsletter subscribers…).

I learned a lot about TikTok, but still have more to discover. In particular, I encapsulated choreographic ideas into a very short format.

Also needed to work with which music clips are available on TikTok and how to edit them along with the videos themselves.

Camera angles, a small space/frame of vision, whether to record with a fixed camera or cameraperson, lighting, perspective and other film techniques came into play. Endless possibilities here even within such a “limited” structure.

Tried out a few limited effects on TikTok (such as in “K“), but that is another rabbit hole to jump down as well. Nonetheless found it interesting to see what was more popular and less so and how trends affect creative choices on the platform.

Grew as a dancer and choreographer seeing my defaults and habits, favorite go-to shapes and steps, as well as incorporating a variety of different techniques, styles, and steps as we moved through the alphabet. Embracing and expanding my style.

Participating in such a long-term creative project also helped me get comfortable with full transparency, letting go of perfectionism and releasing imperfect sketches and drafts and ideas and receiving feedback along the way.

It is important to take breaks, celebrate progress and completion.

Finally, I reinforced what I discovered participating in creative challenges in the past: it really supports my growth as an artist and educator and I will continue to participate in and create such structures in the future!

Created a collection in my Bullet Journal to plot, plan, brainstorm, celebrate

26 Micro Choreo Videos

I edited a compilation of all of the micro video choreos together in the YouTube video below. Sorry if the sound and/or video are blocked at some points or altogether in some locations. Though I learned a lot participating in the challenge, I still don’t understand copyright law when it comes to sampling music on various online platforms.

This video and my creation of these micro video choreographies are for fun and educational purposes only and result in no profit to me.

Considering re-editing the dance compilation with YouTube music in order that it can be freely seen, could also be fascinating to see what impact that has on the experience of the choreographies…

Alphabet Superset Choreography Compilation – 26 Micro Choreo Videos on YouTube

Here are each of my individual Alphabet Superset submissions originally posted on TikTok (and subsequently to IG & FB), as well as a few resources related to the letters that surfaced along the way:

A

Announcing my “A” week Alphabet Superset challenge micro video Choreo on TikTok! To the tune of “All I Need” by AIR.

B

B” bouncing ballet by bricks Micro Video Choreo to the tune of “Boogie Chillen‘” by John Lee Hooker.

Ballet slippers and bricks in this photo from the making of “B

C

Collide”-ing with a church for “C

D

D is for a “Drop it Like it’s Hot” developpe by a door.

E

E” is for Enveloppe ecarte, an Echappe escape, Elancer, Emboite, and entrelace at an enchanted entrance/exit to “Everything has an end, even sadness” by Kaki King.

F

Floating, fondu-melting, flipping and falling at Fort X in my micro video Choreo for “F” to Janelle Monae’s “Float

Screenshot of floating into fondu at Fort X in a site-specific “F” choreography

G

Gliding through a giant gate (The Eigelstein in Cologne) for “G” micro video choreo to “Ghosts” by Florence + The Machine.

H

Cleaned the hall here at home, then recorded this “H” micro video choreo to Blackpink’s “How You Like That.”

I

Intimate Intuitive Improv In a window to The Weekend’s “In the Night” for my “I” micro video choreo.

J

Jumping, Jiving, Jazz-walking “J” micro video choreo under a jungle gym to “Jealousy” by FKA twigs, my 10th contribution to the #alphabetsuperset

K

Kicking around to “Kelly Watch the Stars” by AIR in the Kitchen for “K.”

L

Lounging luscious legs to “Lady” by Modjo in “L.” At home on Hawai’i island I would do it on the Lanai, but in Cologne it’s the Living Room…

M

M” Merry-Go-Round “Mirlitons” Manege at a Christmas Market in Cologne.

N

“Nelken Line” meets “Norwegian Wood” meets “The Nutcracker” and the nape of the neck in “N.”

O

Only You” open and oppositional “O” micro video choreo.

P

Promenade in the Park to “Padam Padam” for “P.” Because “pas” means “step,” “petit” means “small,” and “porter” means “to carry” in French, there are MANY relevant ballet movements here, as well as gestures and steps from other forms.

Q

Quick and queer quatre “Q” to “Quick” by Caleb Gordon.

R

Rhine riverside renverse “Rush” for “R.”

R” rush at the rising river Rhine screenshot

S

Sexy Boy” soutenu, sauté, seconde, saut de basque, six step for #alphabetsuperset “S.”

T

Time goes by at Tanzschule Tanzraum tendu tombe turning “T” micro video choreo to the tune of “Hung Up” by Madonna.

U

Unbelievable” underground umbrella undercurves #alphabetsuperset “U.”

V” on the vamp of my pointe shoes for the first time in very long while

V

Very tall valiantly getting on the vamp of the old pointe shoes in my #alphabetsupersetchallenge “V” micro video choreo, to the tune of Black Violin’s “Virtuoso.”

W

A waltz (actually our beginner attempt at a Tango waltz) by the water to “Water” for “W.”

X

X” marks the spot for this #alphabetsuperset micro video choreo at Fort X in Cologne to “Intro” by The xx.

Screenshot from my “X” micro video choreo at Fort X in Cologne

Y

Its not a Yacht, but I was over Yonder in Amsterdam, falling around doing Yoga, rising and sinking like a Yo-Yo to “Yellow” by Coldplay on a houseboat for “Y.”

Z

Zig-zag Zen by the Zug 🚃 for “Z” to Billy Joel’s “Zanzibar” in my final #alphabetsuperset micro video choreo.

Completed Bullet Journal Collection Spread for my Alphabet Superset 2023-4

Questions for Reflection

  • What creative project are you itching to try?
  • Which internal and external resources will you rely on in order to succeed?
  • How can I support you in taking the leap into your greatness?

Resources for further Exploration

Creative Challenges are a great way to experience prolific artistic output
What I learned from writing a daily Haiku poem in 2021
My experience writing memoir stories for Camp NaNoWriMo 2023
Blog announcement of my participation in Camp NaNoWriMo July 2023
Get Down Daily Dance Challenge is an online creativity challenge

Feel free to reach out to me via email or on Instagram​ @ablythecoac​​h​, I’d love to hear what you’re creating and I’m grateful we’re connected.

Blythe Stephens, MFA & Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
A Blythe Coach: ablythecoach.com @ablythecoach

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dance through their difficulties

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