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Yogalicious 5-Day ReTREAT: Escape Virtually, Anytime

Everyone deserves a break to rest and restore, and you can take one anytime, anywhere and establish a self-care habit with this virtual reTREAT!

At-home or on-the-go, anywhere with an internet connection and anytime it is convenient for you, this 5-Day Yoga Virtual Mini-ReTREAT provides a restful and rejuvenating practice oasis daily. We are playing with some of the basic shapes of yoga, in active and/or restorative iterations, to find the most delectable flavors for your personal practice.

Each daily session is focused on one beneficial yoga pose, which you can choose to approach in a low-impact restorative manner or in a more energizing activated form. For yogis at all levels, I’ll teach each session so that beginners can understand and experienced practitioners can go deeper into their experience of the poses and designing their practice.

If you have 5 minutes, just jump ahead to the last resting pose, set a timer, breathe, and enjoy.

With 30 minutes, do the full video practice and return to your day refreshed.

Or if you have an hour or more, choose additional practices to create your own personal retreat experience.

Yogalicious ReTREAT 5-Day Virtual Escape Video Playlist

Day 1

Full Day 1 Content

Today we’re getting grounded and stable, strong and relaxed with a selection of elongated shapes, including Mountain, Plank, and Savasana. We are starting off with a brief seated warmup, then moving through a few yoga poses which invite the experience of length and extension through the whole body, torso and legs. 

Today we’re getting grounded and stable, strong and relaxed with a selection of elongated shapes, including Mountain, Plank, and Savasana. We are starting off with a brief seated warmup, then moving through a few yoga poses which invite the experience of length and extension through the whole body, torso and legs. 

Make the practice yours by trying my suggested variations as well as other favorites, get integrated and warmed up by doing the whole sequence, or go full-relaxation and skip directly to a restorative savasana. 

Day 2

Full Day 2 Content

Today we’re diving in with forward-folding shapes, including Chair, Ragdoll, Seated Forward Fold, and Savasana. This sequence of poses will help us to get centered, inward-going and relaxed.

Make the practice yours by trying my suggested variations as well as other favorites, get integrated and warmed up by doing the whole sequence, or go full-relaxation and skip directly to a restorative Child’s Pose adaptation. 

Day 3

Full Day 3 Content

Combining Day 1’s experience of length through the whole body, and Day 2’s forward folding at the hips, we’ll now shift perspectives and take a “V” or an “L” shape through several iterations, both upright and inverted, vigorous and deeply relaxing.

Sorry my voice is not picking up in reclining postures, some inversions, or during music play! I didn’t realize this was happening until too late in the editing game. I will continue to improve sound quality in the future! In the meantime, it is very much possible to get all the benefits out of the practice with occasional lapses in my detailed commentary. 

Day 4

Full Day 4 Content

You are in “4” a treat today, tuning in, turning up, turning out to open the hips to turn into Figure Four, Tree, Pigeons & Butterflies, and a soothing 4:4 breathing pattern. 

I find that dancing and every day life tighten up my hips and lower back, and a few stretches make everything better!

Day 5

Full Day 5 Content

Do you ever feel closed-off, separate, or collapsed? Although turning inward (such as we did physically in the forward folding practices, as well as metaphorically) has its place, we want to balance that action with opening up and reaching out. Today we’re going to float our hearts open, leaning back to receive all the goodness in our lives. 

We’ll be stretching through the back and shoulders in standing or seated, prone, and supine shapes and finding our favorite backbending flavors. We’ll also practice a slightly prolonged and deeply relaxing 5:5 breathing pattern. 

With this practice our virtual yoga reTREAT is complete! I hope you have relished your daily escape and know that you can always come back to the practices when you need them.

Ways to keep on savoring your retreat:

  • Indulge in savasana anytime with Fall Forest Savasana
  • Relax for 45 minutes with a Yoga Nidra or yogic sleep session
  • For more fun variations on plank pose, try some Planking Pleasures
  • For more mountain & plank goodness Sensational Caterpillar Walks
  • Keep on standing strong, rising and sinking in a Sun Salutations practice
  • Refine your taste for chair pose or practice dynamic squats with Scrumptious Squats
  • Carry on sailing away with Beatific Boats
  • Lots more fun with Buoyant Bridges here!
  • Looking for a chair-based yoga session? Try the Spring Fresh Seated Yoga Practice
  • For more tasty hip-openers, watch my Intro to Hip Stretches
  • How does external rotation of the hips work in dance? Here are some Truths about Turnout
  • Explore a variety of yoga practices on my Yogalicious Playlist on YouTube
  • Get dancey with my Dance Warmup, Ballet Barre, or Centre Playlists or upcoming free virtual Ballet Intensive (make sure you’re following me on IG and/or subscribed to my weekly email newsletter to find out more)
  • Still want to keep moving? My Minimal Fitness article and Playlists have ideas…
  • Get out for a walk or sit in nature
  • Take an especially indulgent cleansing shower or bath
  • Blow bubbles, see something beautiful, embrace your inner child
  • Get out your favorite candles, incense, oils and aromatherapy, refreshing beverage, drawing supplies, and favorite book, or meditation supplies and put them to good use
  • Get into that rooted feeling with a Grounding Meditation, elaborate on your sense of core power with a Centering Meditation, maintain a meditative mood with an Orienting Meditation, or enjoy some silence and find your favorite meditation approach (Meditation Practice article)
  • Play with Pranayama breathing techniques
  • If you’re not sure how to adapt the poses to feel delicious to you or you want more opportunities to practice, you can go ahead and schedule a complimentary consultation for personalized support from me, or hit me up on social media
  • Reflect & Journal: record your intention and experiences (Journaling & Reflective Practice article), starting with prompts such as, What are your favorite yoga poses, shapes, or exercises? Which do you dread? In both cases, why? What movements make you feel good/better? What joyful movement does your summer have in store? How do you relax and restore? What next step are you inspired to take?

Questions for Reflection:

  • What value have you received or generated by participating in the ReTREAT?
  • What feels missing, incomplete, or disempowering in your ReTREAT experience?
  • What do you want to be acknowledged for?
  • What parts of the ReTREAT practices do you wish to integrate into your life?
  • What structures of support will you put in place to help you remember?

May these nurturing habits of mindful movement and self-care become a permanently beneficial part of your daily ritual. 

I am so happy to have you here and to support you in living an extraordinary life! 

Yogalicious Virtual Re-TREAT Free Workshop Series

Everyone deserves a break to rest and restore, and you can take one anytime, anywhere with an internet connection, and establish a self-care habit with this complementary yoga series!

Announcing my FREE 5-Day Virtual Yogalicious ReTREAT!

Yoga ReTREAT Invitation Video

My video inviting you to the Yoga ReTREAT is here

You are invited on a yogic getaway…

I’m dropping in today to invite you to join my FREE 5-Day Yogalicious Virtual Yoga ReTREAT! It will take place June 20-24th in celebration of my birthday and Pride Month as my gift to you.

At-home or on-the-go, anywhere with an internet connection and anytime it is convenient for you, this Yoga Virtual Mini-ReTREAT provides a restful and rejuvenating practice oasis. Take just a handful of moments (or hours, depending on time available) out of your day, and feel the benefits.

A custom yoga adventure

Each session is focused on one delicious basic shape or yoga pose, which you can choose to approach in a low-impact restorative manner or in more energizing activated forms (or both). I will provide and encourage adaptations to find your favorite flavor.

For yogis at all levels, I’ll teach each session so that beginners can understand and seasoned practitioners can go deeper into their experience of the poses and designing their personal practice.

What to bring on reTREAT

Come as you are, and bring your favorite yoga props, pillows and blankets, candles, incense, crystals and beverages to create the full “retreat” experience.

The yoga session duration will average between 15 & 45 minutes per day, but I encourage you to expand on that and indulge as long as you can. However, when time-pressed, just one of the poses, or 5 minutes per day can make a huge difference!

Yoga ReTREAT Schedule

The week of the virtual yoga reTREAT we are going to practice together daily, with a new pose and brief yoga sequence on video for you to enjoy each weekday along with other videos, resources, and ideas to expand on your retreat time allowing.

I will also include links to the previous day’s content going forward, so you can refer to it, start again anytime, and go through the whole workshop series again anytime you like. 

The ReTREAT Includes:

  • Daily email greeting the week of the reTREAT
  • Pre-recorded yoga sequence on video to practice anytime and anywhere with pose versions for a variety of yoga practitioners
  • Live Q&A on Instagram
  • Ongoing support, resources, and joy through the weekly A Blythe Coach email newsletter

Your Yogalicious reTREAT Leader

The virtual yoga reTREAT is led by me, Blythe C. Stephens, MFA in Dance, Certified Coaching Graduate, YTT200, Bliss Catalyst & Creator of A Blythe Coach: helping multi passionate creatives dance through their difficulties & take leaps of faith into fulfillment.

Hawai’i-raised and Cologne, Germany-based, I collaborate with students and clients in-studio and online and would love to connect on social media @ablythecoach

***If you are also seeking more specific dance-related content, check out my ballet and dance videos on YouTube and look forward to my Virtual Dance Intensive in July!

Count me in!!

Just pop your information at the link here to sign up free of charge, or visit my Instagram @ablythecoach and send me a DM to get started.

We will have fun and feel good!

Pleasing & Powerful Pliés in Ballet & Dance

“There are two strong energies involved in the plié: gravity and the human psyche’s willpower.” (_The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique_ p.87)

Please, Please Pliez Me

I had long heard that “Plié is the first thing you learn and the last thing you master,” but had to look up who said it and adultballerinaproject.com says it was Suzanne Farrell, a famous ballerina whom I admired as a young dance student.

It’s one of the most amazing things to me that in ballet, as with other highly-sophisticated techniques, you can continue to learn new things about technique and artistry your whole life. The training never ends, no matter how “advanced” or masterful you become. 

So it is with Plié. On the one hand, it’s just one of many steps a ballet dancer must learn, but it is also integral to modern dance and mastery of movement in general. All athletes could benefit from a little Plié in their lives. Squats are also excellent training for the legs, but they are performed totally differently, using the muscles and alignment than a classical ballet Plié. 

In her book, Basic Principles of Classical Ballet, renowned ballet pedagogue Agrippina Vaganova states: “Plié is inherent in all dance movement. It is to be found in every dance pas, and therefore particular attention should be paid to it during exercises. If a dancer lacks plié, her performance is dry, coarse and devoid of plasticity.” (p.17)

Although I don’t presume to provide an exhaustive account, this article focuses on the subject of the plié movement in ballet and other dance forms. I also refer to two YouTube videos about the technique, Pleasing & Powerful Pliés, and Podcast episode 014: Powerful Pliés, also linked below.

In my capacity as dance educator I will continue to share new sequences, information about sound technique and artistry, and resources on an ongoing basis.

Podcast 014: Powerful Pliés

Powerful Pliés Video

Plié with Port de Bras Video

The Pleasing Plié with Port de Bras video adds arm and head movements

Plié is Functional Movement

Eliza Gaynor Minden defines the term in The Ballet Companion as: “Plié means ‘fold’ or ‘bend’; in ballet it is to bend the knee or knees of your standing leg or legs. The barre usually begins with demi- and grands pliés, but just because they are first doesn’t mean they are simple.” (p.128)

They are a powerhouse, like a coiled spring full of potential for changing level, direction, and path through rising, sinking, jumping, turning, and landing with integrity and quiet control. Plié as an exercise creates balance and control, strength, and plasticity in the muscles.

We work slowly at first to refine alignment, build muscle control and tone, develop coordination, and stretch, then move more quickly through Plié while dancing complex choreography.

In the Technical Manual and Dictionary of Classical Ballet, Gail Grant elaborates on function and application: “Bent, bending. A bending of the knee or knees. This is an exercise to render the joints and muscles soft and pliable and the tendons flexible and elastic, and to develop a sense of balance. There are two principal pliés: grand plié or full bending of the knees (the knees should be bent until the thighs are horizontal) and demi plié or half-bending of the knees. Pliés are done at the bar and in the centre in all five positions of the feet.” (p.88)

Rory Foster stresses that “Plié (bend) is the most important movement we have in ballet. Practically every step begins and ends with it–we simply could not dance without it. The plié is a movement, not a position; it is what a dancer moves through in order to get into the next step or directional change. Feeling the plié is very important, but getting stuck in it is another matter.” (Ballet Pedagogy p.40)

Plié & Spatial Intent

In the modern dance space, Nikolais/Louis have unique insights into the expressiveness of plié that have added nuance and sophistication to my experience of the movement: “The plié series is based on the dimensions of the body and their extension into space. First position: in place vertical up and down, second position: width sideward R. and L., third position: in place diagonal, fourth position open diagonal, fifth position: in place, sixth position: depth, forward-backward. Between open positions, return to vertical (in place) with proper arrival of arms and legs in closed positions, so the action goes from in to out–closed to open, in place to spatial.” (The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique p.88-9)

For more about space in ballet and dance technique, I suggest my blog article, The Body in Space – anatomical dimensions, planes, and posture in dance & life.

Demi Plié Technique

Demi Plié begins with equal distribution of the weight through the soles of both feet (a one-legged knee bend or Plié is called Fondu), with approximately a third of the weight over the big and small toe joints and heel. Length is maintained through the spine, with the pelvis in neutral alignment, core engaged. The knees slowly bend until the limit of keeping the heels on the floor, then knees slowly extend to return to the starting position.

As the knees bend, they track over the middle toe, so whether the dancer is in a parallel or turned-out position, the angle of external rotation in the hip, knee, and foot matches. This means the dancer is not twisting in the knee or ankle joint, but stabilizing a rotation from the hip joint, the safest technique for producing turnout. For more about turnout and external rotation in my Truths About Turnout video!

Nikolais/Louis explain quality and musicality: “There is movement during all the time allotted for the down and up. There is no arrival on the first beat and holding for the rest of the time. The time value of the plié and rise is legato and continuous.” (The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique p.87)

Grant describes how to correctly perform demi plié: “The bending movement should be gradual and free from jerks, and the knees should be at least half-bend before the heels are allowed to rise. The body should rise at the same speed at which it descended, pressing the heels into the floor… All demi-pliés are done without lifting the heels off the ground. In all pliés the legs must be well turned out from the hips, the knees open and well over the toes, and the weight of the body evenly distributed on both feet, with the whole foot grasping the floor.” (Technical Manual and Dictionary of Classical Ballet p.88-9)

Vaganova adds a pointer about the angle of the knee and foot: “Particular attention should be paid to the upper part from the hip to the knee. The knee should always be bent in the direction of the toes. That is so the knee is over the foot.” (Basic Principles of Classical Ballet p.18)

Going for Grand Plié

Grand Plié bends the knees further bringing the pelvis lower, possibly between the knees with the thighs parallel to the floor at the lowest point, with spinal alignment and neutral pelvic alignment intact. 

In 2nd position, the heels stay in contact with the floor, but in all other positions (parallel, 1st, 3rd, 4th, & 5th) the heels will peel off the floor once the limit of Achilles Tendon and calf muscle flexibility is reached. The heel should smoothly lift just as much as necessary to continue lower, and on the return trip up to standing the heels reconnect with the floor as soon as they are able with alignment intact, pressing firmly to stand tall. 

Vaganova shares exceptions to the heels lifting off the floor rule: “In the grand plié in the second position or the fourth position ouverte (feet in the first position but separated by the space of one foot) the heels do not rise off the ground.” (Technical Manual and Dictionary of Classical Ballet p.88)

Foster describes a minimal lift of the heels during grands: “In grand plié, the heels (except in second position) should lift only as much as they have to, and then press into the floor as soon as the ascent begins.” (Ballet Pedagogy p.40)

Even at the bottom of grand Plié, the legs and core are engaged (never “hanging out” in the joints or bouncing around), as if ready to spring up into a turn or jump, and the torso is vertical with a neutral (level) pelvis, and the toes are long on the floor.

Upper Body in Plié

Plié is largely a movement in the lower body, so as beginners we start with establishing posture in the upper body (as also described in this posture article and this stability and integrity article) and change in levels through sinking and rising in the legs only, adding coordinated arm and head movements later, as in the Pleasing Plié with Port de Bras video above.

Perfecting Plié

Improving your plié performance requires solid understanding of the technique and ongoing practice. Gaynor Minden provides a list of further tips for “Getting the Most Out of Plié:

  • Work your turnout properly from the hip, and maintain the alignment of your ribs and pelvis.
  • Be aware of all ten toes on the floor, and of controlling your ankles and knees so they don’t roll in.
  • Keep your heels on the floor at all times during demi plié; during grand plié lift them at the last possible moment going down and replace them as soon as you can coming up. Lift them as little as possible. In second position the heels remain on the floor.
  • A word from two legendary ballet masters, Enrico Cecchetti and George Balanchine: Don’t sit at the bottom of your plié; start the ascent immediately and keep the timing consistent: if it’s two counts going down its two counts coming up.
  • Plié means bend, but the straightening and stretching of the legs is even more important than the bending. Rrrrrrresist! Do your pliés as if moving through peanut butter.
  • Grands pliés in fourth and fifth positions really challenge the control of the turnout, so they are sometimes omitted from beginners’ classes.” (The Ballet Companion p.128)

Cautions about Plié

All conscientious pedagogues warn about potential mistakes and dangers of such an important technique. Foster lists such pitfalls as: “Common errors: sitting at the bottom of the bend and going too deep. The pelvis should stay slightly higher than the horizontal level of the knees (never below), and the movement should be a smooth, continuous, even movement on the descent and ascent.” (Ballet Pedagogy p.40)

Nikolais/Louis echo the concept of equal distribution of the weight and issue a caution about shifting weight in certain positions: “The body weight is centered between both feet at all time (sic), with hips squared off to forward. The plié is done with the weight equally divided on both legs. The tendency in fourth, fifth, and sixth positions is to shift the weight on to the back leg. Correct this imbalance.” (The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique p.88-9)

Vaganova warns against “sitting” at the lower point: “Upon reaching the extreme point of the plié in the down movement, the pupil should not remain there even for a moment, but should immediately begin to straighten up. If a pupil remains ‘sitting’ in a plié, she not only does not improve the energy of the muscular drive and the elasticity of the whole leg, but, on the contrary, the legs–the levers of the jumps–acquire a sluggishness.” (Basic Principles of Classical Ballet p.19)

Some anatomies are born more adept, and we would be wise to exercise care and not overdo it, cautions Vaganova:

“People who are naturally endowed with a talent for the dance have a very pliant Achilles’ tendon, and the leg easily forms an acute angle with the foot. Others have an Achilles’ tendon that bends with great difficulty. In such cases it is necessary to begin a struggle with nature, and here we must exercise great caution and consideration. Therefore, if the feet of a pupil who finds it hard to plié should begin to hurt, especially the ligaments, it is best to refrain for the time being from working on her plié, and return to this work later and do it gradually and carefully.” (Basic Principles of Classical Ballet p.18)

Effective Barre Training

Plié is a critical component–no, the MOST critical component– of a full ballet barre training, and once you’re getting the hang of it, the next step is to combine with warmups such as “Planking Pleasures,” “Sweet Leg Swings,” and “Plush Paralleleves” and ballet barre technique exercises such as “Tempting Tendus” and “Saucy Sautes” for a short but effective core and lower body exercise program for dance. Or join or continue a full-length barre or ballet class in-person or online.

If you’d like support in designing your own training program or accessing further resources, I’m more than happy to help 🙂

Rory Foster summarizes the benefits of plié in a nutshell:

“As a beginning exercise, it consists of a complex set of motions that enable the dancer to feel movement of the entire body, especially when it is done with port de bras/cambré. It establishes the initial feeling of posture and placement–the center line of gravity (the plumb line)–and it incorporates movements of the ankles, knees, and hip joints, the release and rotation of the legs (turnout), and the alignment of the torso over the legs and feet (base of support). Incorporating stretches going forward and sideways (flexion), backward (extension), and circular (rotation) simultaneously enables the spine to become warmed, stimulated, and stretched.” (Ballet Pedagogy p.40)

Related Resources from Blythe

7 Movements of Ballet Playlist
Elements of Dance Playlist
Ballet Barre Playlist
Wonderful Warmers Playlist

Sources Cited

Ballet Pedagogy: The Art of Teaching by Rory Foster
The Ballet Companion by Eliza Gaynor Minden
Dictionary and Technical Manual of Classical Ballet by Gail Grant
The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique by Alwin Nikolais and Murray Louis
Basic Principles of Classical Ballet: Russian Ballet Technique by Agrippina Vaganova

Let’s connect by email or on Instagram @ablythecoach, I would love to hear your perspective! 

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
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Coming from Your Powerful Core: Calibrating a Centered State of Being for Yoga, Dance, & Life

Do you want to feel more powerful in your movements in everything you do?

Centering and integrating generates power for movement and taking effective action from the core of your being, your core values and beliefs, and your deepest and most efficient muscle groups providing a strong and effective powerhouse.

Here we create cohesiveness, movement, and transformation, providing fuel for growth and burning through change & challenges.

Integrated Physical Core

In the physical body, the core muscles connect upper and lower body, torso and limbs, organize around the spine, and coordinate our movement. To generate more core power for your dance or yoga movements or athletic pursuits as well as for everyday life, I’ve got a variety of exercises on my Concentrated Core Conditioning & Beautiful Breathing playlists on YouTube. [Video at 02:22]

I experience an increased sense of personal power when I train my physical core, both physically and mentally/psychologically, as articulated by fellow yoga teacher Barb Elias as guest on the Bone health episode of the Connected Yoga Teacher podcast:  

“The stronger I get in my body, The stronger I feel emotionally.”
~ Barb Elias 

Strong Spiritual Center

We can also develop a spiritually strong core, focusing on our most valued beliefs and in the yogic tradition, our svadharma.

A strong spiritual center can help us realize our purpose in the world and to take effective action. In his translation of the Bhagavad Gita, _The Living Gita_ verse 3:35, Sri Swami Satchidananda states, “You have been created unique with certain abilities no other person can do. That’s your svadharma, your individual duty. […] something completely righteous. It’s something completely natural to you that you could do to benefit others.” 

Centering is so important to me that I also featured it in Episode 2 of the podcast 🙂

Coaching for Living from Purpose

There are a few related ontological Coaching Distinctions that are applicable to the act of centering, including identifying our personal Essence, Purpose, and Values. The work I do as a coach is built upon understanding clients’ strengths, beliefs, and values and how generate powerful action.

The Purpose Coaching Tool is where we identify our core purpose in life and if you’d like support in clarifying your own purpose and aligning your actions with it, I’d be delighted to guide you through the process in a 1:1 call which you can schedule here with no obligation.

I was recently reminded of this work listening to “Elizabeth Gilbert, Black Diamond Quitter” episodes of the Quitted podcast (Part One & Part Two), where they talked about how we may feel like we have to figure out our unique purpose and it has to be something that generates our legacy, something we are acknowledged and remembered for, at which we are better than anyone. I think we can tend to think of dharma in the same way. What pressure! 

But I don’t conceive my Purpose that way, thanks to my training with Accomplishment Coaching. It is timeless and unconditional, not a “solution” to some “problem” that we perceive in the world, but rather awareness and the choice to Be my Essence and express something universal through my life, to connect with others. My own purpose is joy, but for some it is love or truth or some other essential quality. 

Living a purposeful life is important to me, but I’ve come to realize that satisfaction and fulfillment live in the PRESENT moment, so my purpose is to simply be here for it, witness to it, appreciate, and enjoy. That’s why I’m grateful and enthusiastic (as much as possible), because that is what I am meant to bring to the party called life. 

My purpose is something I can do and be every day, in every mood and moment, free from assessment or achievement. There’s nothing to accomplish, really. Centering has to do with self-knowledge and is built on a foundation of well-being and stable groundedness. It is strength and empowerment, wisdom and self-confidence, inner resourcefulness.

Tools for centering at my personal altar: incense, candle, oils, crystals, journal

Center of the Energetic Body

The “core” of the energetic body in yoga philosophy includes the Sacral (Sradhisthana) & Solar Plexus (Manipura) Chakras, associated with hips, mobility, digestion, and transformation. We can support our energy in flowing through the chakras and enlivening body and soul through a variety of approaches, a few of which I include here. [Video at 00:55]

Core Associations

Colors correlated with the Sacral and Solar Plexus Chakras are Orange & Yellow. You can apply color therapy through what you wear, visuals in your environment, or mental visualization as we will apply to the following meditation. Associated Elements are those of Water & Fire, which we can bring into our space through a simple cup or container of water and a candle or incense.

If you enjoy playing with crystals, Agate, Amber, Carnelian, Citrine, Pyrite Stones can be used to connect to core values and strength. Orange, Grapefruit, Citrus, Ginger, and Peppermint Aromatherapy essential oils can also be used.

For breathwork, a few examples of centering Pranayama are Ujjayi breathing, work with the Bandhas, and Kapalabhati/Skull Shining Breath/Breath of Fire techniques. There are certainly others – what sorts of breathing techniques or other tools help you feel strong and centered?

This centering meditation includes breathwork & visualization to generate core strength

Here in the video above and podcast below, I suggest a few Centering Breathing & Meditation practices that can be done in any comfortable position, with or without supportive tools.

Centering Meditation audio-only version available on the podcast

Centering Meditation for Strength

In the video above [at 03:40], I start by introducing the idea of Centering Meditation, including recommended Props & Tools, though it can be practiced without accoutrements.

Check out Rufio the cat’s cameo at about 25 seconds in, right when I say “power.” 😀

You may choose a reclining, seated, or standing position, and start by evenly distributing your weight and Sense of rooting and anchoredness. For more about cultivating a sense of stable grounding, check out my Get Grounded Stabilizing Meditation and video and Get Good and Grounded blog article.

Centering Props & Tools

Gather your Props & Tools depending on preference and access, taking into consideration associated Colors, Elements, Stones, Aromatherapy/Essential Oils, Tea, Journal or whatever else pleases you.

You can involve all the senses, or practice without any tools required.

Central Flame Visualization

Come into a comfortable position–seated, reclining, or standing–that is rooted/anchored, evenly distributed, and stable. [Video at 06:09]

Options for hand/arm positions, holding crystals – Gently close or softly focus the eyes – Imagine a flame burning at your center, casting yellow and orange light, your breath, fueling your central fire, sending energy out into the world, emanating from your core – Continue breathing calmly and naturally, or join me in a Pranayama practice. [Video at 06:52]

  • Hands on belly, or one hand on belly, one on heart, or hold favorite centering crystals(s), or palms upturned in lap.
  • Imagine flame burning at your center, casting yellow and orange light. As you breathe, envision it fueling the fire, see the light pouring over your body and out into the world. Feel an energy of power and confidence emanating from your core. 
  • Continue breathing calmly as you hold this image, or practice Ujjayi breathing as follows.

Ujjayi Pranayama for Core Connection

Ujjayi Pranayama creates a slight closure or constriction to the throat, like sucking a straw. It can be practiced on it’s own or during a vinyasa or yoga flow practice. [Video at 08:06]

In through nose on the inhalation if possible (though you can practice through the mouth as well if needed), and as if fogging a mirror on the exhalation, such that you hear an ocean-like sound.

Notice how the core expands and shrinks with each cycle. Take a few slow and mindful breaths in this way, then return to breathing naturally

Always take breathing exercises at a slow and mindful pace, and return to or continue to breathe normally if they aren’t right for you.

Centering Thoughts/Stands/Affirmations 

Choose a centering thought/affirmation/stand or compose a different phrase that resonates in your core [Video at 10:07]:

  • I need/want/act.
  • I know who I am, and I honor and embrace my true self.
  • I am confident in who I am.
  • I am confident in my ability to create what I desire.
  • I believe I am worthy of my desires.
  • I have the strength and energy to pursue my passions.
  • Creativity flows through me. 
  • Joy flows through me. 
  • Abundance flows through me.

Repeat your chosen Centering Thought to yourself as we continue with the meditation. [Video at 11:19 with music, 3 minutes]

Release your Centering Thought and slowly return to the room and gently open your eyes. [Video at 14:09]

Record or write down your centering thought in a place where you will encounter it throughout the day and be reminded of your personal power.

“Personal power is the ability to take action.” – Tony Robbins

Questions for Reflection

  • What is the core of my being?
  • What are my strengths?
  • What are my core values?
  • What are my core beliefs?
  • Where are my actions in alignment with my core strengths, values, and beliefs, and where am I out of alignment?

Let’s connect by email or on Instagram @ablythecoach, I am delighted to hear your perspective!

Related Resources from Blythe

Sources

  • Accomplishment Coaching training materials
  • Teacher Training with yogaloft, Cologne
  • Teaching People Not Poses: 12 Principles for Teaching Yoga with Integrity by Jay Fields
  • Chakras & Self-Care: Activate the Healing Power of Chakras with Everyday Rituals by Ambi Kavanagh and Poppy Jamie
  • Music: “Glacier” by Patrick Patrikios on YouTube

I hope you enjoy this meditation and collection of resources to develop inner strength and integration for every area of your life!

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties and
take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life

DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

Shake It Off! Stress & Tension Relief for Dancers, Athletes, and other humans under pressure

Haiku #93 of 2021: “Let Go”

How quickly can you
let everything which lies right
behind you go

If you’ve taken a dance or yoga class with me, you know I love to “shake it out” after the focused effort of dance movements and yoga poses. This way we can release excess tension that may build up during exercises. A couple of examples are in my Pre-Barre Warm Up to Whet the Appetite video at 11:44 and in Plush “Parallelevés” at 4:05.

Shout out to my ballet student from Honolulu, Ryan, who would always sing “Shake it Off” when we were releasing tension and coming back to neutral in between combinations!

Move to Release Stress

There are a variety of enjoyable exercises to shake your stress off, whether it be physical or psychological, a selection of which I featured in this recent video:

6 Favorite Exercises: Shake It Off – Stress & Tension Relief Exercises YouTube Video

These are six of my favorite little movements to relax and relieve stress and tension between dancing, sports, and everyday activities:

1. Standing “Knocking on Heaven’s Door” (Adriene Mishler – yoga) [01:48]
2. Heel Rocks (Peggy Hackney- Bartenieff Movement Fundamentals) [03:47]
3. Duck Tails (Peggy Hackney- Bartenieff Movement Fundamentals) [05:20]
4. Shoulder Shimmy (Michelle Gaines- Jazz) [06:44]
5. Horse Lips (Aloha Theatre & The Movement Center) [08:16]
6. Lion’s Breath/Lemon Face (The Movement Center & yoga) [09:11]

Shake it Off for Mental Health

Recently I read an article about the psychological benefits to such movements as well in Mind Body Green, where the psychologist entered, Ellen Vora, M.D., explained:

“It approximates what we used to do as animals to discharge excess adrenaline and reset the nervous system,” she says. “…For example, Vora notes, you might see a goose flapping its wings after getting into an altercation or a rabbit shaking after a stressful event.”

Vora’s recommended technique to release stress in the body follows these steps: 

  1. “Sit or lie down on a comfortable surface. 
  2. Pull up any song you enjoy. If you’re curious, here’s what a neurologist listens to to relieve anxiety.
  3. Close your eyes. 
  4. Let your body relax, releasing any tension. 
  5. Shake your body around for at least 90 seconds, in whatever way feels best to you.”  

Both the article and I stress the importance of self-awareness and self-knowledge. Always tailor your physical and mental practices for yourself and your individual situation. Go at the speed that is right for you, start slowly and be mindful, and choose supports that work for you, such as movements and positioning that are comfortable in your body and music that you enjoy.

Here are some other fun “shake out” movements to try:

“Wonderful Whirligig” Arm Circle Walks video on YouTube
Pranayama & Kundalini “Coffee Grinders” video on YouTube
  • Arm & Leg Shakes (standing or reclining with limbs in air)
  • Classical Jazz Dance, West-African Dance, Tahitian Dance, or Belly Dancing Isolations
  • Rag Doll yoga forward fold
  • Bouncing Meditation

In creating upcoming content, I plan to include movements and topics of interest to YOU, so let me know what you’d like to see more of!

Spiritual Shake-Off: Meditation

Yoga and meditation provide spiritual practices in letting go as well. In his translation of the classic yoga text The Bhagavad Gita, The Living Gita, Sri Swami Satchidananda describes spiritually letting go like this:

“Swim like a duck in the water. But the minute you come out, shake everything off. All the water drops away, you come out free. That’s real dhyanam, true meditation.” (p.84)

Questions for Reflection

  • How do you tend to hold on to tension in the body?
  • How do you hold grudges in the mind?
  • What are your go-to techniques to cope with stress?
  • What’s your favorite way to shake off between exercises?

Tell me your favorite ways to shake off your stress here or on IG @ablythecoach, I would love to hear your perspective! 

Blythe C. Stephens, Coach for Creatives Dancing Through Difficulty
MFA, she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties and
take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life

Haiku Poetry Challenge 2021- What I learned writing 365 Poems in a year

Haiku #99 of 2021 by Blythe C. Stephens (inspired by Emerson)

Poet as sayer
recognize experience,
beauty, report back

My Passion for Poetry

I love poetry! I enjoy reading it, writing it, sharing it, using it for teaching and inspiring choreography. What do you use poetry for? Who are your favorite authors? 

Ever since I was a child, rhyme and rhythm have come to me, and I’ve read and written verses on and off since then. My parents read me Edward Lear’s Nonsense Poems, such as “The Owl and the Pussy Cat,” I bought collections of poetry as an angsty teen at ballet conservatory, and I made it through romantic dramas and big life changes in college and beyond in part through poetry, writing it, reading it, going to slams.

My MFA thesis was a collaboration of dance and poetry, including choreography to some of Shakespeare’s sonnets, such as this one titled “Like Waves,” and with live slam poetry.

Participating in The Artist’s Way (2019 or 2020?), I confirmed that my inner Artist Child loves to read and write poems and these activities support me personally, spiritually and creatively. While I took part in NaNoWriMo 2019, poems and songs became a part of the novella/libretto I worked on. 

National Poetry Month 2020 Poems & Resources

Then, every day during National Poetry Month (April) 2020 I shared a blog with favorite poems by other authors as well as my own work. I created a video to share some of my favorite resources for teachers, parents, and lovers of poetic verse:  

My video sharing collected favorite poetic resources from Poetry Month 2020

I have included favorite seasonal poems in videos and live classes in yoga and dance and shared some in my Luscious Life YouTube Playlist and in 2021, one of my creative challenges was to write a Haiku each day.

Daily Haiku Writing Challenge 2021

April was National Poetry Month in the US, and although I’m living in Germany, I decided to read and reflect on the poems I wrote during my own personal Haiku writing challenge last year. Inspired by an article about a pair of friends who wrote and sent each other a Haiku poem each day, I toyed with the idea of creating such a tiny poem daily in 2021. Then, I just started doing it, scribbling haiku and fragments onto post-it notes and in my journal. 

During the year of Haiku writing, I shared my work weekly on my personal blog, and I’ve included links each to the individual blogs below.

Podcast 084 is the audio version of this Haiku Challenge blog

Building a Poetry-writing Habit

Although I wrote one Haiku for each day last year, and mostly the poem-writing was a daily habit and occupation of my spare moments, I didn’t necessarily finish one poem each day.

Some days, multiple sources of inspiration would pull me and I was awash with ideas, words, and counting syllables on my fingers constantly. Other days I had more peripheral, vague impressions or just continued to formulate existing ideas. I did have the occasional lapse of a few days in my poetic writing, at which point I would play catch-up to get back on track toward my personal challenge goal. I even have a poem about it:

Haiku #64 of 2021 by Blythe C. Stephens

Just one more poem
and then I’ll be all caught up
ebbs and flows be damned

And there’s also a poem about writing under a deadline, #231:

Just a quick poem
fast fast time pressure say it
something interesting

I think these moments encapsulate from the experience of trying to develop a regular creative writing practice nicely 🙂

Creative Process over Product

All of these Haiku poems that I wrote in 2021 are works-in-progress. None have been workshopped with other poets nor have I received feedback on them from any source since writing them, so please be gentle in your own criticism if you do choose to read my amateur work.

Of course creating such a body of work on a daily deadline on the side of a full life, some of the poems turned out crap. Thankfully I expected that and it was more about the process than some sort of quality product. It’s delightful that there are some poems I quite like, that I feel truly encapsulate the feeling or idea, the moment in time that I was searching for words for.

More than anything, I sought the creative experience of daily short-form creative writing, just building a consistent poetic practice, trying to describe a time and place, people and things I appreciate, value, am curious about, or wonder at. The creative process generated insights for me personally, and I feel I improved as a writer and poet through this structure.

One of my Haiku was about the need to try and fail in order to improve:

Haiku #33 by Blythe C. Stephens (inspired by Pat Flynn)

You have to be the
disaster before you can
become the master

Poetic Themes and State of Mind

I am in the process of indexing the 365 Haiku by topic/theme and selecting favorites to further develop and possibly share through other venues. Its a lot to reflect on, and likely I will have other thoughts to share about the process and product eventually.

It was delightful to go about in a poetic state of mind all the time, searching for turns of phrase, wordsmithing, playing with rhyme and rhythm, being open to influences around me everywhere and listening to what the universe presented. The process was one of distilling down to kernels the thoughts on a variety of topics of interest and experiences.

Exploring different poetic structures is a fascinating study, and I decided to focus on Haiku for a full year to get significant experience working with them through seasons of change.

In reviewing the poems, it’s interesting to see that few major themes are emerging, with a lot of them being about important people in my life such as family members, friends, lovers, even a few strangers. The natural world, weather, and seasons were a biggie, as well as animals, pets and wild, travel and adventure, politics and current events, spiritual and philosophical ideas I was chewing on, Tarot, Yoga, my identity, lots and lots of prayers and gratitude celebrations, declarations, questions, and some sad expressions of grief. Also food, family, and some about food AND Family, reading, the process of inspiration and creating in writing as well as dance.

Each day’s poem is a little morsel, and all together they tell a laser-spare tale of the year. All of the Haiku helped build my identity as a poet, my body of work, and my understanding of the Haiku form, such as it is in English (and a few in German). The conciseness, elegant simplicity, and brevity appealed to my philosophical side and to my need for something manageable enough to make it a daily habit for a year!

Writing about Poetry & Creativity

#269

Long day of writing
working to publish weekly
sharing what I’ve learned

Love that I even had a poem about writing blogs, podcasts, videos and other content!

Philosophy, Teaching, Coaching, Dance & Life

Some of my favorite Haiku of the year were musings on my Philosophy, Identity, Spirit, Teaching, Coaching, Dance & Life and insights from my reading and teachers. I’m sharing a selections of these below:

#28

Grateful energy 
the universe flows through me
creating magic

#45 (inspired by a Sufi prayer)

Let your mystery
dawn in me, an ecstasy
of humility 

#58

Minimalism
making the most out of life
traveling lightly

#65

Teaching: inviting
loving conversation within
and with others

#66

Knapsack on my back
eyes peeled, ears perked, rambling
long distances bound

#74

Do we embody
the breath, or is it that the
breath embodies us?

#80

Poetic pirates
traipse the earth in free pursuit
of all that they may

#93

How quickly can you
let everything which lies right
behind you go

#110

one thing at a time
and also take time to do
nothing in silence

#129

Balancing is not
a state of static stillness:
moving, dynamic

#177

If whatever you
want appeared before our eyes
what would it look like?

#179

What you love, do it
make yourself happy making
others happy too

#181 (inspired by Pema Chodron)

Found it all right here:
the greatest possible wealth,
inspiring, fulfilled

#227

A bliss catalyst
I prance through life with a frisk
bringing others with

#241

You’re never too old
or “out-of-shape” to begin (or return)
learning how to dance!

#332 Inspired by Real Happiness

No matter what comes
capable to learn new ways
of being with it

#365

It can be scary,
yes, but I love a new start,
a fresh adventure!

Weekly Haiku Blogs 2021

Part of my accountability and record-keeping was publishing a blog weekly with my latest poems and here are the 52 blogs I posted:

  1. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/01/2021-haiku-challenge.html
  2. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/01/haiku-2021-part-2.html
  3. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/01/haiku-2021-part-3.html
  4. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/02/haiku-2021-part-4-24-32.html
  5. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/02/haiku-2021-part-5-33-39.html
  6. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/02/haiku-2021-part-6-40-46.html
  7. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/02/haiku-2021-part-7-47-52.html
  8. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/03/haiku-2021-part-8-53-61.html
  9. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/03/haiku-2021-part-9-62-66.html
  10. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/03/haiku-2021-part-10-67-72.html
  11. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/03/haiku-2021-part-11-73-80.html
  12. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/03/haiku-2021-part-12-81-87.html
  13. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/04/haiku-2021-part-13-89-93.html
  14. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/04/2021-haiku-challenge-part-14-94.html
  15. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/04/haiku-2021-part-15-102-7.html
  16. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/04/haiku-2021-part-16-108-114.html
  17. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/05/haiku-2021-part-17-115-121.html
  18. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/05/haiku-2021-part-18-122-9.html
  19. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/05/haiku-2021-part-19-130-5.html
  20. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/05/haiku-2021-part-20-136-42.html
  21. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/05/haiku-2021-part-21-143-9.html
  22. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/06/haiku-2021-part-22-150-6.html
  23. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/06/haiku-2021-part-23-157-63.html
  24. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/06/haiku-2021-part-24-164-71.html
  25. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/06/haiku-2021-part-25-172-177.html
  26. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/07/haiku-2021-part-26-178-84.html
  27. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/07/haiku-2021-part-27-185-91.html
  28. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/07/haiku-2021-part-28-192-8.html
  29. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/07/haiku-2021-part-29-199-205.html
  30. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/08/haiku-2021-part-30-206-12.html
  31. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/08/haiku-2021-part-31-213-19.html
  32. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/08/haiku-2021-part-32-220-6.html
  33. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/08/haiku-2021-part-33-227-33.html
  34. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/09/haiku-2021-part-34-234-40.html
  35. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/09/haiku-2021-part-35-241-7.html
  36. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/09/haiku-2021-part-36-248-54.html
  37. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/09/haiku-2021-part-37-255-61.html
  38. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/09/haiku-2021-part-38-262-8.html
  39. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/10/haiku-2021-part-39-269-75.html
  40. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/10/haiku-2021-part-40-276-82.html
  41. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/10/haiku-2021-part-41-283-9.html
  42. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/10/haiku-2021-part-42-290-6.html
  43. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/10/haiku-2021-part-43-297-303.html
  44. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/11/haiku-2021-part-44-304-10.html
  45. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/11/haiku-2021-part-45-310-16.html
  46. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/11/haiku-2021-part-46-316-24.html
  47. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/11/haiku-2021-part-47-325-31.html
  48. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/12/haiku-2021-part-48-332-8.html
  49. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/12/haiku-2021-part-49-339-45.html
  50. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/12/haiku-2021-part-50-346-52.html
  51. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2021/12/haiku-2021-part-51-353-9.html
  52. https://blythelydancing.blogspot.com/2022/01/haiku-2021-part-52-360-5.html

Journaling, Art, & Meditation

Recently I listened to an MBOm podcast episode where yoga therapist Joy Ravelli shared the JAM acronym which stands for Journaling, Art, and Meditation, and those elements are all important to my personal practice and what I recommend to clients and students as well.

I journal in a variety of ways, have a daily meditation ritual, and create art rampantly through dance, writing (poetry, prose, fiction, nonfiction, blogs…), music, crafting and other means. I find physical/experiential/embodied practices to be an important component as well, whether yoga, dance, or various sport and martial art forms.

Dance Through Your Difficulties

I will apply each of these approaches with powerful coaching tools and embodiment practices in my free upcoming 5-Day Dance Through Any Difficulty Coaching Challenge, which I’m offering during International Coaching Week May 16-22. In just minutes a day, you can dance with me through whatever obstacle you may be facing right now, and you will be well-equipped to navigate all future breakdowns and difficulties to the joyful multipassionate life you dream of leading.

Through daily emails, video lessons, a live Q&A on Instagram, and links to more free resources, I’ll guide you through the tools and distinctions, exercises, simple habits, and designing clear actions that will provide a powerful boost to any project or area of your life.

Questions for Reflection

  • What do your reflective/journaling, meditative, and artistic practices involve currently?
  • Which area(s) could use a boost to create the life you want and solve the problems you currently face?
  • What tiny habit would you enjoy picking up?
  • What do you want to create?

Keep your eyes peeled and ears perked for future sharing about poems, poetry, writing, creativity, and education! Please share your favorite poets, poems, and writing by yourself or others.

Let’s connect by email or on Instagram @ablythecoach, I would love to hear your perspective! 

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties and
take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life

Order & Inspiration out of Chaos – BuJo Setup 2022 – Journaling for Balance & Creativity

Bullet journaling
present what’s most important
focused log of life

(My Haiku #317 of 2021)

As a self-employed/freelance movement educator and coach who works live in-studio and online and always has an array of projects going, my life can be chaotic! This lifestyle demands organization and tracking, and I need to constantly be fueling my creativity as well.

In the last couple of years I’ve picked up bullet journaling as a component of my goal-setting, project-planning, annual, monthly, and weekly organization system. It resonates for me because as a kid I loved scrapbooking and collage, as well as personal growth, and as a coach I promote finding what works for my clients in terms of their systems.

Bullet Journal Setup 2022

BuJo Setup – Oder & Inspiration out of Chaos video on YouTube

[This is my first video from above/over my shoulder with my new ring light/tripod, so it is predictably imperfect, with cameos from the top of my head and nose. Partway through I adjusted and the angle improved, but thanks for your patience with my amateur video skills. It’s all a learning experience!]

Here I’m getting down to the nitty-gritty of how I organize my Bullet Journal as a tool for productivity and creativity (as well as balance and rest! Cycles are an important element, as we shall see…)

Last year was the first where I really dove into using a Bullet Journal for most of my planning and tracking (though some elements are still digitized, and I have other notebooks for different purposes as well). In the last couple of years I’ve been learning about bullet journaling as a component of my goal-setting, project-planning, annual, monthly, and weekly organization system.

As a kid I loved scrapbooking and collage, as well as personal growth, as a coach I promote that clients find what works for them in terms of their systems, and I discovered that aesthetically pleasing habit trackers fostered consistency.

This year I’ve taken what I learned from last year’s experience, as well as a few new supplies, and am having a blast creating my spreads and using them on a daily basis!

Basic Elements of my BuJo

I walk through each of these elements in the video above, and here are the basic contents of my current bullet journal.

First we have a Key of symbols I use in my weekly/daily bullet journaling to represent tasks, completed tasks, those which I need to migrate forward to the next week or back to the future log, events, and notes.

On the inside cover of the journal, I have some collage and a copy of the “Morning Manifesto” I wrote inspired by Seana Barbes and Julia Cameron (_The Artist’s Way_) honoring my Artist Child, and reminding me of how I want to be in the world. This section also includes my Artist’s Prayer, Quotes, Essence, Purpose, Vision, and Mission.

Then we have my Index of where to find spreads and collections in this journal, so I can easily find the pages in the future.

Following is a spread with my Yearly Stand/Theme for 2022, which is Love, with Foci/Projects, activities, and practices/rituals/habits listed that support my stand.

Next is two spreads for my Future Log for the year, with three months per page of important events, birthdays, holidays, and monthly theme ideas.

Weekly & Monthly Spreads

After the Future Log follow individual Monthly Spreads, Weekly Spreads, and then further collections to track and take notes of what I’m up to, listed below. I don’t make daily spreads in my main bullet journal, instead daily tracking and notes are in small pocket notebook.

Weekly & Monthly BuJo Spreads video on YouTube

Project Collections

The projects I’ve been tracking so far in my BuJo this year include:

  • Reading Log: Title, Fiction or Nonfiction, Date completed, Rating 1-5 (Also on Goodreads)
  • Writing Log: Letters, Poems, Articles, Blogs, Books, Programs
  • Practice: Yoga, Meditation
  • Create: Video, Music, Podcasts, Cooking, Crafting
  • Connect: (not shown in YouTube video) friends, family, community (letters, Discovery Calls, 
  • Sustain: (not shown in YouTube video) Financial Goals and tracking
  • Inspiration for my current Lovingkindness meditation practice
  • Weekly & Morning Rituals, Moon Cycle
  • Astrology ideas from my birth chart
  • Tarot spread for the year, tapping into my intuition, (weekly card pull recorded in Weekly Spreads)

Hope you enjoyed that little voyeuristic peek into my planning process!

BuJo Brainstorm, Resources

Resources from people for whom Bullet Journaling is what they actually do:
Book: The Bullet Journal Method Ryder Carroll
YouTube Channels:
Erin Smith Art
Rachael Stephen
Reflect with Raksha 
Cat’s Planner
Amanda Rachel Lee
HAY Studio
Planning with Kay
Journal Away
Mochibujo
Rylee Autumn
Shayda Campbell
Sarica
Claudia Kai
Brent Galloway
Men Who Bullet

Blogs and videos by me on related topics of self-awareness, learning, and growth:

Questions for Reflection

  • What style of planning, journaling, reflecting, tracking, and record-keeping best suits you?
  • What do you want to be reminded of daily?
  • What projects are your highest priority this season?
  • What will you commit to in terms of journaling or reflective practice this week?

Let’s connect by email or on Instagram @ablythecoach, I would love to hear your perspective and nerd out some more on Bullet Journaling, organization, and creativity! 

Blythe Stephens, MFA
she/her or they/them
A Blythe Coach: Dance Education & Coaching 
move through life with balance, grace, & power

Creative Ballet Port de Bras – Arm Artistry Exploring Nature

Joyful movement in general, and ballet in particular, is one of the great passions of my life. I find the movements of the arms particularly captivating, and in recent times it has become more relevant than ever that they are accessible with little available space.

As I age, I also appreciate how I can continue to refine elements of my technique and artistry, such as balance and port de bras, while athletic high-impact jumps and such become less of a focus.

In addition to ballet, there are many influences on my dance technique and upper-body movement, including experiences in Hula, Modern Dance, Jazz Dance, Okinawan dance, Hip Hop, and other modalities and improvisational experiences. It is a blast to play with arm movements from classical and contemporary dance forms as well as innovate our own upper-body stylings!

Arm Artistry in Ballet

It can definitely be helpful to practice the basic arm movements of ballet through learning set sequences or syllabi of exercises over time. In my own training, I learned the Cecchetti ballet technique port de bras series as a child, then experienced an array of schools and techniques as I studied with diverse artists and matured as a dancer. 

Then it can deepen our practice to experiment with our own original improvisation and choreography, using music and movement in creative ways. My Arm Artistry Playlist on YouTube includes some set port de bras sequences and some more creative and improvisational upper-body fun:

Arm Artistry Port de Bras & bpper-body ballet movements playlist on YouTube

All of the port de bras videos I share can be adapted to your available space, range of upper-body motion, and an assortment of seated, standing, or reclining positions. 

Recently I’ve experimented with port de bras inspired by nature, and came up with a series of videos about flowers, snowflakes, pinecones, and raindrops which I am sharing below.

Flower Fantasy Port de Bras

The “Flower Fantasy Creative Ballet Port de Bras” video features a combination of improvisational upper body movement and a simple arm choreography to “Waltz of the Flowers” music by Tchaikovsky from “The Nutcracker” ballet.

Imagine a time-lapse video of a flower blooming, petals emerging, a sunflower following the Sun’s rays. These movements can be performed seated or standing, you can follow along with me, or you can devise your own original floral-inspired movements.

Flower Fantasy Port de Bras video with music from “The Nutcracker” Ballet

Snowflake Port de Bras

In the “Snowflake Creative Ballet Port de Bras,” the upper body movements are inspired by another track from Tchaikovsky’s “The Nutcracker,” the iconic “Waltz of the Snowflakes.” 

Emphasizing angular and geometric shapes, you can follow along with my loose sequence (I play with the timing a bit as the music changes), improvise freely, or do some combination of both!

Snowflake Creative Port de Bras video with music from “The Nutcracker” Ballet

Pinecone Port de Bras

Emphasizing sharp and angular yet woodsy pinecone-like shapes, the “Pinecone Creative Ballet Port de Bras” is inspired by the movements of the dolls in “The Nutcracker” and “Coppelia” ballets and this music, Bach’s Cello Suite No.1 in G Major, Prelude (love how woody/pinecone-y the cello sounds!).

I improvise freely through different classical ballet arm positions perform the sequence while seated on the floor, but could also be practiced sitting in a chair, standing, or even lying down.

Pinecone Creative Port de Bras video with music by Bach

Raindrop Port de Bras

Emphasizing splashy rain movements, for the “Raindrop Creative Ballet Port de Bras” I visualized the fresh showers of springtime, welcoming tender blossoms. The port de bras rain drop movements move in two directions with both arms, then alternating one arm at a time.

Raindrop Creative Port de Bras video with music by French Fuse

Questions for Reflection & Feedback

I hope you enjoyed these nature and music-inspired creative ballet port de bras and let me know what else you’d like to learn about.

  • What do you most enjoy about port de bras or arm movements?
  • What do you find challenging in learning, performing, or creating port de bras?
  • What movements, qualities, or sources of inspiration do you want to explore in the future?

Let’s connect by email or on Instagram @ablythecoach, I would love to hear your perspective and keep in touch!

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties and take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life

6 Things to Omit from your Morning Ritual for Mindful Creativity – Building Blissful Morning Boundaries

My creative morning ritual, the details of which I shared in last week’s blog and Podcast 081, keeps me present to my Essence and Purpose and that which is most important to me to lead a fulfilled and joyful life. The whole process helps me to clear mental clutter, judgment, fear, and concerns whether they be petty or profound.

While writing about the elements my morning ritual, I realized that the sacred time I spend preparing for my day is as much about what I avoid doing as the actions that I choose to take. That is, in order for me to focus and get into the head space I require, there are platforms and activities that I save for when my ritual is complete, for later in the day, or that I skip altogether.

Of course, not having a regular 9-5 job at this point in my career, being self-employed/freelance certainly helps with flexibility at the beginning of my day. Back when I was first working after college, I didn’t have a morning ritual and barely managed to include cross-training in my weeks, then as a student coach in a corporate environment, I got up in the dark to squeeze in Pilates and aerobics workouts. 

In more recent years as a coach I developed increasingly healthy habits, though being in graduate school full-time and teaching in multiple locations was tough to juggle. However, once my daily yoga habit was established I realized that I would require certain habits and rituals to get me though my demanding schedule. They then carried me through a difficult divorce and beyond, and I’ve had the freedom to elaborate on my morning ritual since moving to Cologne and weathering COVID-19.

They key is focusing on what’s important to me, and eliminating the rest. Consider what you can remove from your own morning to make space to add something more important to you. I bet you can find just a bit more room to be present to yourself and your highest priorities each day!

Podcast 082 is the audio version of these 6 things to consider omitting in the morning

Skip these for a better morning:

The following are some of the things that I avoid early in the day to make space for a meaningful ritual. Of course what works for me isn’t meant for everyone, so take what works for you and leave the rest.

  1. No snoozing! Ok, very infrequent snoozing. I remove as much friction as possible from the waking up and getting ready process in order to have a calm and collected start to my day. No alarm clock torture, just jumping up, fixing myself a coffee, and getting started.
  2. NO notifications, social media, computer, email, news, or input from sources not carefully curated by me, as few interruptions as possible. Of course I am often interrupted by the cat, occasionally by my partner and others, but the idea is to save such distractions as much as possible for after my ritual is complete. My ritual does include limited cell phone use for Apps such as Duolingo, Bible App, Gratitude App, Today Habit Tracking App, Tide timer used for meditation and morning pages etc., but I am careful not to linger on my cell phone.
  3. No complicated grooming or dressing routines. I don’t have to worry about my hair, as it always looks the same unless it’s time for a buzz, and the rest of my grooming process is also streamlined.
    On a daily basis, almost no decision-making is required as far as washing up, I have a fiercely edited collection of natural personal care products that I follow in the same order every day. I wear the same three cosmetics every day and only for occasions do I add anything. Same goes for jewelry and wardrobe, of which I have a limited selection (for example, all my shoes are black), and is easily coordinated, minimizing decision fatigue early in the day. 
  4. No running around to gather what I will wear/use/bring.
    If I’m going somewhere that day, I will have packed my bag the night before, and my yoga mat and morning ritual supplies are always at the ready.
  5. No participating in diet culture, weighing myself, restricted eating, or using exercise in a punitive way. I eat what is available and what I desire, when I am hungry. I move because it brings me joy and makes me feel good! I don’t do anything without a good reason and each practice needs to support my well being in body, mind, and spirit. It needs to be a part of my personal identity and my dream life and not something that’s about judgement, shame, or guilt.
  6. Along those lines, I do my best to limit negative self-talk and beating myself up about things I have no control over such as what I did or did not do the day before or skipping a day on one of my habits or ritual practices. I just start again the next day and part of my morning ritual is to write and move and meditate to clear negative emotions, worries, fears, thoughts, and concerns.

Blissful Morning Boundaries

Avoiding these six distractions supports well-being. My nervous system thanks me, as I tend toward nervous energy and anxiety (the positive part of this is motivation, enthusiasm, and action), and I can easily be derailed from my intention, so it’s important that I have firm boundaries at the beginning of my day to set the stage for success. 

By making conscious choices about what to include and what to omit in our waking hours, we can impact our entire day! My work requires concentration, coming up with and executing ideas and being fully present with people, but I am a bit on the introverted side, so it is critical that I have enough “me time” to prepare to show up fully for my clients, students, and beloveds.

Questions for Reflection

  • What do your days require of you? 
  • What will you omit from your morning to make space for your own creative ritual?

Let’s connect by email or on Instagram @ablythecoach, I would love to hear your perspective! 

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties and take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life

My Creative Morning Ritual

If you’re as much of a personal growth nerd as I am, you are already well-familiarized with the ins and outs of morning routines. There’s a kind of voyeuristic thrill that comes from learning about others’ personal habits, and I often glean insights into my own habits by reading, watching, or listening about how others shape their daily lives. 

It can also be fun to see how our own rituals have developed over time, and how in different seasons of life they can evolve.

Yep, so here I discuss one of the keys to my own life of creativity and fulfillment, my morning ritual, which I have developed over my whole life, but in particular the past few years. It all started with a daily yoga practice that I thankfully put in place before my second divorce, which helped keep me afloat through that and as I have continued to grow as an educator, creative, business owner, and human being.  

My daily ritual has grown to include practices that facilitate physical, mental, and spiritual well being and abundant creativity. When I complete these actions on a daily basis, I develop clarity and momentum, feel inspired and strong, experience less pain, and am able to coach, dance, teach, write, and engage with ideas and people in a well-grounded and present way.

Welcome to my morning ritual altar, where I discuss this topic on YouTube

Or you can also listen to the audio on Spotify or wherever you enjoy your podcasts

Where the Magic Happens

I have set up a little altar in my living room, which is compact but equipped with a meditation cushion, yoga mat, candle, incense, crystals, mala, singing bowl, notebooks, and creative supplies for my Bullet Journal and Artist’s Dates.

Elements of the Ritual

Moving & Breathing – Yoga

The habit that started it all, helps me be able to move and teach, mitigating pain, providing part of the maintenance that constitutes my physical therapy regimen, as well as anchoring in the present moment.

Sitting in Stillness – Meditation

After establishing my daily yoga habit, I stacked just a little meditation on, allowing me to clear my mind, marinate in the comfortable state created by my yoga practice. Since then, I’ve continued to study different methods and expand my practice, but it all started with five minutes per day.

Writing – Daily Journal, BuJo, Morning Pages, Thanks

I keep a Bullet Journal (inspired by creators on YouTube and informed by The Bullet Journal Method by Ryder Caroll) for Annual/Monthly/Weekly planning, special projects and collections. Mixing up digital and analog helps me process information and come up with ideas.

For portability in my daily notetaking, including dreams, spontaneous ideas, my most important tasks, appointments, and habits, I have a pocket-sized journal.

Thanks to Julia Cameron’s “The Artist’s Way” program, I currently freewrite 3 “Morning Pages” every weekday, a wonderful venting session, palette cleanser, and frequent source of breakthrough ideas. In my coaching work, I also use a Clearing Exercise to help process through emotions and move powerfully forward. Whatever format it takes, writing can be a powerful practice for all creative people!

Focusing on the richness around me and my blessings has become an important component of my daily writing, in the form of thanksgiving in the Gratitude App in the morning, and abundance in my daily journal in the evenings.

Language Study

I practice my language skills every single day, and for the last few years that has been German. Having taken intensive courses in person in Cologne and then moved online during pandemic, I continue to build vocabulary and grammar skills through daily Duolingo.

Inspirational Reading

This varies from year-to-year and sometimes day-to- day and may include devotionals, scripture, inspirational nonfiction & prayers. In 2021 I read prayers from around the world in Light the Flame, and I also read from the Bible, Quran, meditation and spiritual teachings.

Spiritual growth, wisdom, and perspective are part and parcel of my practices and impact my choices and habits from morning ritual to business.

Inspiring Listening

This year I’ve added classical music appreciation, with the help of the book Year of Wonder and companion playlist.

Morning Manifesto

Inspired by Seana Barbes, this is also a new piece this year, combining some of my existing practices that are meant to keep me present to my purpose and priorities, as well as future visioning, alignment with sources of identity and inspiration, and tuning into subconscious programming.

Breakfast

It’s very important to me, and depending on the day will fall somewhere in the middle or end of my morning ritual.

Rituals are Personal

Just because these are the activities that feed my creative spirit doesn’t mean they are right for everybody, and I understand that taking this amount of time in the morning is a privilege, but I intend this exploration an invitation for you to tweak or design your own ritual, even if it’s just 5 minutes to be with yourself and prepare for the day.

Resources for further morning fun

Questions for Reflection

  • What does your morning ritual include? 
  • What can you remove from your morning ritual to help you feel more present and focused?
  • What small habit could you add to inspire your days?

Blythe Stephens, MFA, Bliss Catalyst
she/her or they/them
Creator of A Blythe Coach: dance through your difficulties and take leaps of faith into a joyful, fulfilling life
@ablythecoach

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