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2021 Meditation Practice Challenge

Here I am, officially challenging you to join me in daily meditation to create lasting positive effects in our lives this year! Start with just 1-5 minutes per day, then increase by only one minute per day each month to experience transformation. My goal is to get from my current 12 minutes of meditation to about 20-25 minutes/day by the end of the year. 

Or, feel free to take on daily yoga or another challenge of your choosing, by deciding on a minimal daily practice starting point (again, I recommend 3-5 minutes to start with), then gradually increasing your practice duration.

What benefits will I see from meditation, and how much do I need to practice to receive them?

According to the Manhattan Center for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy’s  November 30, 2020 article by Dr. Paul Greene, “How Long Should You Meditate For? And How Often?,” “research found that in a sample of U.S. Marines preparing for deployment, meditation sessions as brief as 12 minutes produced cognitive improvements. A 2018 study found that 12 minutes a day of Kirtan Kriya meditation was sufficient to produce significant positive changes in predictors of dementia found in the blood. A third study found that 10 minutes of daily meditation improved GRE test performance in undergraduate students.”

I could certainly appreciate improved cognition, and suspect we all could these days! But, don’t be discouraged if at first you can only fit in a minute or two daily, as Dr. Greene adds that “Making meditation a regular part of your day is more important than how long you meditate. For that reason, the length of time you meditate should be sustainable for you. It won’t do you much good to meditate for 90 minutes one day when you happen to have the time, and then feel guilty the rest of the week when you can’t replicate that.” 

It was heartening to read that “Meditation appears to be similar to physical exercise in this way. There is no optimal length of time you should exercise, and there is no perfect number of minutes to meditate, either. With either physical exercise or meditation, it’s important that the amount of time you do it be sufficient to challenge you a bit, but not so much as to leave you feeling demoralized or exhausted.” 

Meditation is good for people, good for dancers, and a natural part of yoga, too!

My meditation altar at Christmastime, with candles, incense, significant objects, and crystals

How did I establish a daily habit?

As I described in my Healthy Habit Building blog, establishing daily practices in yoga and meditation has been a personal breakthrough in recent years. Beginning prior to 2007, I strove to meditate “regularly,” aiming for several times a week for 30 minutes, but this turned out to be too long of a duration at first, and not regular enough to make the habit stick. I made an inconsistent effort and tried different meditation approaches, from shamanic journeying with my dad, to self-hypnosis at NCSA, and various techniques presented during yoga classes.

Based on my Unitarian Universalist faith, I tried out the structured practice in Simply Pray: Modern Spiritual Practice to Deepen Your Life**, of Centering, Entering In, Naming, Knowing, Listening, Loving, and Returning. I resonate with it, but found it too complex to practice regularly at that time. In 2017, I read Benjamin P. Hardy’s article, “50 Ways Happier, Healthier, And More Successful People Live On Their Own Terms,” and tried out his more simple approach to the intervals and focus of meditation and prayer. Hardy explains,  “I’ve gotten the best results as:

  • My morning prayer and meditation are motivational
  • My afternoon prayer and meditation are evaluative and strategic
  • My evening prayer and meditation are evaluative and reflective.”

But that too proved too extensive for me to fully adopt as my regular practice. 

In getting my daily yoga practice started, what I noticed is that I am most successful at practicing consistently at least 5-15 minutes a day, focusing on specific areas of the body or themes that are relevant to me that particular day (quick wins, reinforcing the practice with how great it could make me feel in minimal time), and that once I was doing so regularly, it became easier to add in more. Yoga is ideally followed by meditation, and sometimes meditation practice is even included in a yoga session. 

So, after I had established my minimal daily yoga practice habit in 2018, the Calm App’s “Daily Calm” short daily guided meditations and lovely background sounds really helped me start practicing on a regular basis back. I did an introduction to meditation challenge with them and it motivated me to keep my practice going.

The Headspace App is also great, and there are also nice free guided meditations available on YouTube, such as this one from Dandapani: “The Meditation You Need Every Morning For A Better Day,” which I used a lot in 2019. In that meditation, Dandapani says, “Meditation is about doing the same thing over, and over, and over again.”

At that time I finally realized that in order for me to ever meditate for a longer duration and reap the benefits of that, I would first need to get comfortable with a minimal amount of 5-15 minutes per day like I had with my yoga. So, in 2020 I resolved to do just that and build a regular practice, with just 5+ minutes daily on my “mountain top” of Alps sounds that I set a timer for on the Tide App

Joining a Yoga Teacher Training strengthened my practice further, as I learned and was reminded of additional techniques such as chanting the Gayatri Mantra (108x). I was inspired to invest in my own mala (amethyst, rose quartz, and clear quartz crystal), and joined other teachers in training in the Deepak Chopra 21-Day Challenge “Energize Your Life: Secrets to a Youthful Spirit” (in German and English!). This was all so inspirational! In particular, Chopra shared that meditation is a common factor in folks who age well, and this struck me as significant, so I shared the finding in a “7 Habits of People Who Age Well” YouTube video, below.

Chopra also wrote a similar article, “Seven Secrets to Grow Younger and Live Longer,” where he shares research that “shows that people who meditate regularly develop less hypertension, heart disease, anxiety, and other stress-related illnesses that speed up aging. Furthermore, new studies are finding that meditation literally restores the brain.”

I will continue to experiment with different approaches and read and learn more, but meanwhile I will continue the daily practice now well-entrenched with my Tide App, which I track using Today, breath using my mala and internally chant a mantra I gleaned from the Bhagavad Gita, “think only … of me [the infinite].” 

In 2021, my goal is to ever-so-slowly expand the length of my daily practice, by one minute per day each month. Having meditated 10 minutes in October, 11 minutes daily in November, and 12 in December 2020, I’m confident that I can keep that streak going. But if I experience setbacks, I’ll just start again 🙂

What follows are strategies that have helped me to finally become a meditator to encourage you in taking on the challenge of building your own practice.

Teeny Tiny

I would recommend making the practice of meditation, as with any new habit, as small as possible at first. Using the example of meditation, you could commit to 1-3 minutes of meditation daily, so that it’s downright silly to skip it no matter how busy you are, and you just might get carried away and want to do more! 

Daily

Historically, I have failed to establish “regular” habits that only occur a couple or a few times on a weekly basis. It gets slippery to track and doesn’t feel truly habitual. So, daily small habits work better for me, and I really like Matt D’Avella’s “The Two Day Rule” of not skipping more than one day of a habit. This way it’s not perfectionistic 100-percent-ism or failure, rather you can take breaks when needed, but it still creates that consistency and results that will keep you going. 

Tied to Identity and Goals

It has proven critical in my development of a consistent meditation practice, as is stressed in Atomic Habits**, that habit I’m working on aligns with my bigger goals and sense of personal identity. In that way it becomes a part of who I am, not just something I have to do, and I can see how it progresses toward important objectives.  By meditating daily, I am a meditator and move forward on my path towards spiritual enlightenment through mindfulness practice (however slowly!). 

When I fail in attempting a new habit, these are good places to look: is it connected to my very identity? Do I understand it’s connection to my major goals? Is it in small enough increments where I can find no good excuse to skip it? What structures of support and accountability do I have in place to make it irresistible?

Accountability

I have found accountability methods to also be extremely important to my success and it  has been a process of trial and error to discover what kind of accountability works best for me. Over time, I have discovered that for me, it is important to give myself “credit,” preferably colorful, playful, celebratory credit, to track the new habit(s) visually and with analytics over time. It is so satisfying to color in squares or check off boxes, or even use stickers, it makes me want to leave no empty boxes in the row!

Now instead of separate sheets, I am moving my tracking to a bullet-journal style notebook and apps like the Today Habit Tracker App which lives in my “Morning” folder of apps on my phone’s home screen along with other habits from my morning routine. I also share in my blog, social media, and with accountability partners to help enforce accountability and of course a coach, class or other community of support can be a great help!

Join the Challenge

Been itching to try meditation or finally make your practice a regular thing? Or have another habit have you been contemplating adding to your daily routine? Consider what structures of support you really need to make it a consistent reality and see results in your life, send me a message, or hop over to the A Blythe Coach Facebook Page and I and the community there would be happy to support you in making it a reality in 2021!

Stand, Objectives, & Projects for 2021

In this blog, I’m sharing my theme for 2021 and the goals and projects I’ll tackle in the coming year! This will be my final blog of 2020, and I’ll pick up in January with goal-setting and achievement for dancers, yoga and dance techniques, and more. Please let me know what topics you’d most like to hear about next! 

A festive setup for work on my bullet journal for 2021

I think it is important to put my annual stand and project objectives in the context of my life’s purpose, my essence (or what I bring to the party of life), mission, and vision. Then as I create my projects and take action throughout the year, I can see how it is all, down to my tiniest habit, in service to my reason for being. Becoming aware of all of these facets of my identity has been a process of introspection, counseling, coaching and discovery.

Ever since I read Write it Down, Make it Happen**, by Henrietta Anne Klauser around 2006, I’ve been extra validated in my belief that recording and processing my thoughts on paper puts out an energy that helps them unfold in the universe. That was also a time where I was plotting many future visions which have since unfolded, including my Life Coach Training, Yoga Teacher Training, Dance Educational Leadership, MFA, and more. 

I talk about my history with goal-setting and the processes I’ve used in the past and what I’m trying out now in my YouTube video on the topic:

Here’s my YouTube video about my new year’s planning processes of the past and present

Blythe’s Purpose: Joy
Essence: Buoyant, Creative, Curious, Love, Leader
Mission: Uplift and catalyze others through creativity, dance & yoga education, & coaching.
Vision: Inspire and equip students and clients as citizens to live joyful, extraordinary lives.
Through Actions: live and video-recorded yoga, ballet, and dance classes; ontological life coaching; free content such as a blog, articles, & books; prolific creativity in areas like poetry, choreography, and educational content; gratitude and satisfaction in every moment, fun & festivity.

2020 Theme: Courage/Mut; 2021 Theme: Abundance/Reichtum
Specific projects, skills, habits, and accomplishments I’m seeking in 2021:

Business & Contribution: A Blythe Coach
Write and publish at least one Book, B1 Deutsch, Positively impact many students: teach 10 live classes per week, Gain Patrons, Email Newsletter Subscribers, Coaching Clients, Yoga and Ballet students, Renew German Work Visa, Study/Practice: Writing, Marketing (Content and Social Media), Yoga (Chakras, Pranayama, Mudras, Adaptive Yoga and yoga sequencing), & Social Justice

Financial Planning Calculate Minimum Viable Income, Earn that as an entrepreneur educator, Update my Business Plan, Savings, Pay Student Loans, Invest, [Buy a Motorcycle Medium-Term Plan]

Fun & Adventure
German Drivers’ License, Renew US Passport, Travel again when we can with many adventures both to visit friends and family and on romantic trips together, music, hobbies, pleasure reading, crafts, cooking and baking

Spiritual Growth
Meditation Challenge (+1 minute/day per month), Daily Devotional , Read the Qu’ran, observe seasons and holidays

Love
Attend to relationships including romantic, family, and friendships; write love notes, make phone calls, celebrate birthdays and anniversaries

Health & Well Being
Physical Therapy, Workouts, Pull-Up and Handstand goals, preventive care

HOW I WILL BE PRESENT to my goals and vision for the year and the smaller steps toward them: making plans and tracking progress in my Bullet Journal, creating Project Designs for larger objectives, breaking them into doable daily and weekly habits, noting progress in said habits and project action steps, weekly and monthly reviews, quarterly and semi-annual check-ins, treats and celebration of milestones large and small.

I will also be doing completion work on 2020/the past (great for Winter Solstice and end-of-year) in order to let go of the past and evaluate my current context and resources to help me accomplish my goals/be in my Essence. 

I stand for your greatness, and am here to support your projects in the following ways:

If you are reading in real time, there’s just one more chance to take my “Yummy Gentle Yoga for Dancers” and “Yummy Gentle Ballet Barre for Yogis” classes this year! This Tuesday morning, 22.12.2020 (Monday evening in HI/US)  I will host my last classes before,I take a break until 5.1.2021 🙂

Meanwhile, you’re invited to join my 2021 Meditation Challenge! Or, take on daily yoga or another challenge of your choosing, decide on a minimal daily practice starting point (I recommend 3-5 minutes to start with), then increasing by one minute each month. My goal is to get from my current 12 minutes of meditation to about 20-25 minutes/day by the end of the year. 

Tell me what your dreams, intentions, and projects are for 2021 by sending me a message here or on the A Blythe Coach Facebook Page.

Wishing You Healthy & Happy Holidays & a Magical New Year!

Blythe Stephens
She/her or they/them
A Blythe Coach: 
Dance Education & Coaching to move through life with balance, grace, & power

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DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

Healthy Habit-Building

MY HABITS HISTORY

Having been a personal growth/development/organization/productivity nerd for as long as I can remember, I’ve always been enthusiastic about new goals and healthy habits, but I’ve struggled to keep them going over time. 

Beyond the basics of  brushing and flossing my teeth, preventive medical care, drinking water, getting enough sleep, a fairly nutritious diet, and generally keeping active due to a love of dancing, walking, hiking, and bicycle riding, I have had a hard time maintaining my annual-or-so declarations of good intention. 

Plain Healthy Habit Tracker created in Excel circa 2011

I learned to track my habits while training with Accomplishment Coaching, and accountability helped, but it has taken the intervening years and a lot of experimentation for me to discover what it really takes for me to practice consistently. That’s been a breakthrough in the last few years, actually, starting with my daily yoga habit and then stacking that with journaling, gratitude, and meditation, very minimally at first! 

Companion YouTube Video to this Habits Blog

HABIT-BUILDING

Once those first few new habits were getting established and automatic, I added other daily habits, like a language learning habit that helps me integrate into life in Germany, my Physical Therapy exercises for my knee (which I’ve narrowed down to a minimum of two, twice per week), a minimal full-body workout (more on that below), reading, tracking Moon cycles, interpreting tarot cards, playing the Harmonica,  reading the entire Bible for the first time this year, and even Wim Hof Method cold showers. 

Each of these have been worthy pursuits and I’m happy to share more about what I’ve learned from any or all of them. What interests you the most?

Today I’m sharing my current habit support system, sources of inspiration, and thoughts on what helps me, personally, to build consistency with the healthy habits that support my goals. I am far from perfect, but have come a long way in all of these areas. 

BEGAN WITH YOGA PRACTICE

I really enjoy the Yoga with Adriene YouTube channel, having tried my first of her videos about four years ago. 3 years ago I did one of her New Year’s “daily” yoga challenges over the course of a few months and it made me feel great, so the next year I participated in the January daily challenge and continued to loosely follow her monthly plans to keep on track, in addition to the classes I attended in-person at my local studio. This yielded nearly-daily yoga practice all year, which became even more consistent when I most needed it the year of my second divorce, and still yet more this last year while I was working on my YTT200. 

What I noticed is that I am most successful at practicing consistently at least 5-15 minutes a day, focusing on specific areas of the body or themes that are relevant to me that particular day (quick wins, reinforcing the practice with how great it could make me feel in minimal time), and that once I was doing so regularly, it became easier to add in more.  

Me practicing stability in the Tree Yoga Pose

MEDITATION CAME NEXT

Yoga is ideally followed by meditation, and sometimes meditation practice is even included in a yoga session. I will certainly elaborate in another blog/podcast (or many!), as my meditation practice is continually evolving. 

The Calm App really helped me start practicing on a regular basis back in 2018, with it’s short daily guided meditations and lovely background sounds. The Headspace App is also great, and there are also nice free guided meditations available on YouTube, such as this one from Dandapani: “The Meditation You Need Every Morning For A Better Day.”

CROSS-TRAINING + OVERALL FITNESS

In 2020, I added a little cardio/full-body workout to the habits, inspired by reading The Minimalists’ book Essential**, of which Joshua Fields Millburn’s essay “18-Minute Minimalist Exercises” was a part. I appreciated his applying a minimalist and enjoyable philosophy to fitness, and the example of committing to only 18 minutes daily of exercises he enjoys, in the park, to get great results! I really got jazzed by their podcast “Ep 174 Minimalist Fitness.(with Ben Greenfield),” and Ben Greenfield’s “10-Minute Workout” is featured in this article, “Study Finds 10 Minutes of Exercise is All You Need.”  

I decided to try it out, and have recorded videos for each element of the “10-Minute Workout,” with a variety of fun modifications if you’d like to give them a try, and they can each be found in my “Micro-Workout” YouTube Playlist

ATOMIC HABITS

I’ve benefited greatly from reading the book Atomic Habits** last year (I liked the audio book here, since that’s how I read it, though of course there’s also printed and electronic versions available. The Clear Habit Journal** looks really beautiful, too, and would be a lovely alternative as a treat or gift version of the free templates from Atiliay.com that I talk about below).

I found the book valuable throughout, but a couple particularly applicable takeaways for me were to make the habits truly manageable and small (“Atomic”), and to make sure they are relevant to your very identity, or that which you are wanting to manifest.

LINKED TO IDENTITY

For example, by practicing yoga daily, I am a yogi (or at least “real” yoga practitioner), and that has led to me finally getting my yoga teacher certification and confidently instruct yoga classes. By meditating daily, I am a meditator and move forward on my path towards spiritual enlightenment through mindfulness practice (however slowly!). 

Playing the harmonica daily, a new habit this year, is fun and entertaining (and good for the brain and lungs!), but it also teaches me about music and is making me more of a musician. Daily journaling, morning pages, and weekly check-ins are part of my identity as artist and writer and they help keep me clear and focused on what is important, able to sort and funnel my creativity into exciting projects. 

My habits don’t function well in a vacuum, or that I would carry them out consistently if there were no clear connection to the big picture of who I want to be and what I want to do in the world.

START SMALL

I would recommend making your new habit as small as possible at first. Like, ridiculously low commitment tiny, so that you can find no excuse to wiggle out of doing it, and once you’re doing it, you actually crave more. 

By way of example, you could commit to three minutes of meditation daily, five minutes of yoga, one Duolingo lesson, write a one-line journal entry, read one page of a book…so that it’s downright silly to skip it no matter how busy you are,, and you just might get carried away and want to do more! 

But use restraint, better to want to do more and continue to practice day after day, building consistency and the strength of the habit, rather than over-promising out of the gate, doing too much for a short time, burning out and quitting because it wasn’t sustainable. 

ACCOUNTABILITY

That said, I have found accountability methods to also be extremely important to my success. When I fail, these are good places to look: is it connected to my very identity? Do I understand it’s connection to my major goals? Is it in small enough increments where I can find no good excuse to skip it? What structures of support and accountability do I have in place to make it irresistible?

For me, it is important to give myself “credit,” preferably colorful, playful, celebratory credit, to track the new habit(s) visually and with analytics over time. It is so satisfying to color in squares or check off boxes, or even use stickers, it makes me want to leave no empty boxes in the row!

My colorful monthly habit trackers January-July 2020

HABIT TRACKING SHEETS

In 2019 I started using the Atiliay.com Monthly Mindset + Goals Sheet and monthly Habit Tracker and found that they make very pretty templates and I found that an aesthetically pleasing format entices me to engage with it daily. Olivia Lin has a whole PDF library of free stylish-looking templates for annual and weekly planning, seasonal celebrations, gratitude, craft projects, and more.

When I did The Artist’s Way** last summer, I embraced my inner Artist Child more than ever, and discovered what sorts of tracking and accountability make keeping tabs APPEALING and motivating as well as what sorts of rewards encourage me to keep going. I used my beloved colored pencils, which I keep in a Beatrix Potter tin my Aunt Colleen gave me, to color in squares and also color-themed my monthly goals and reflection sheets.

HABIT APPS

Now instead of separate sheets, I am moving my tracking to a notebook as a quasi bullet journal, and as much as possible onto apps like the Today Habit Tracker App and the Gratitude App which live in my “Morning” folder of apps on my phone’s home screen along with other habits from my morning routine. I also keep some analog tracking for physical therapy, weekly reviews, monthly reviews, and so forth. The system is always evolving!

September 2020’s colorful habit tracker in my “Bullet Journal”

BULLET JOURNALING

The tracking sheets above can also be self-reproduced in a journal, and you can even implement a bullet journal system if that fuels your productivity. My system has elements of bullet journaling to it (though others are digital or take other forms), and I plan to increase my bullet journaling this year. If you want to check that out, I recommend Ryder Carroll’s Bulletjournal.com and videos on YouTube, such as “How to Bullet Journal,” or Kalyn Nicholson and her “How to Use a Bullet Journal.” 

MATT D’AVELLA

I really like Matt D’Avella’s “The Two Day Rule” rule of not skipping more than one day of a habit. This way it’s not perfectionistic 100-percent-ism or failure, rather you can take breaks when needed, but it still creates that consistency and results that will keep you going. 

SOUL + WIT

In the Soul + Wit Podcast “Episode 51 Habits: How to make them and break them for a healthier, happier life,” they talked about Challenges (such as Whole 30, or a month of daily yoga, etc.) and what they find effective for lasting habit change, with Courtney’s equation being one habit at a time (yes, definitely!), starting with small steps (absolutely! More on that in a minute), and acknowledging/celebrating effort along the way = lasting change. Definitely to all of that.

I think it’s also powerful, as is stressed in Atomic Habits, that the habits be connected to much bigger goals and our sense of personal identity. In that way they become a part of who we are, not just something we have to do, and we can see how we are progressing toward important objectives.  

BEGIN ANYTIME

And another tip is to start right now, today, as soon as possible and then continue practicing the habit as early as you can in the day, so you can continue through your day, week, and month with that sense of motivation and momentum to accomplish all that you are after. 

Because it’s important to just add one at a time, some of the habits I worked on this year began in the spring, or even in the summer or fall. There is no time like NOW to get started, you can get a jump on your new year’s resolutions today! 

2021 MEDITATION CHALLENGE

You’re invited to join my 2021 Meditation Challenge! Or, take on daily yoga or another challenge of your choosing, decide on a minimal daily practice starting point (I recommend 3-5 minutes to start with), then increasing by one minute each month. My goal is to get from my current 12 minutes of meditation to about 20-25 minutes/day by the end of the year. 

What habit have you been contemplating adding to your daily routine? What structures of support do you need to make it a consistent reality and see results in your life?

Send me a message, or hop over to the A Blythe Coach Facebook Page and let me know!

Blythe Stephens
She/her or they/them
A Blythe Coach: 
Dance Education & Coaching to move through life with balance, grace, & power

** This blog is not sponsored. Amazon Affiliate links potentially give me a percentage of the purchase price if you buy the book.

DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

End-of-2020 Reflections

First of all, however long you’ve been tuned in, reading, watching, dancing along, etc. I want to THANK YOU so much for being here this year as I started this blog here on my new website, as well as the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel and Podcast, and offered classes online for the first time! It’s been a challenging year on many levels, and feeling connected in different ways with my community helps. 

My fave Shaka Saimin Santa from McCully Shopping Center in Honolulu, HI

I hope you’re getting value out of my posts and all of the resources I make and share, and I welcome your input about what you’d like to see more of in the future! Speaking of sharing, I’ve got a podcast companion to this blog,  
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030: “Reflection on Theme and Goals End-of-2020,” and on the YouTube Channel I’ve added a holiday-appropriate, 20-minute:

Low & Stretchy Yoga 
Low & Stretchy Yoga YouTube Video with plank, twists, and banana pose
And a Wintry Poem to inspire your celebration…
Reading of “winter” by Greta Crosby
Reflecting on an extraordinary year in my life…

What an unbelievable year, though. I hope you are well and heartily celebrating having faced the trials we’ve seen in 2020 from health challenges in pandemic to political upheaval, financial, and personal hardships.  I urge you to be proud of your efforts, regardless of the particular outcomes you’ve been met with. 

With the holidays soon upon us and the new year peeking over the horizon, it’s a natural time to assess our needs and progress, stated goals and values, gained skills and accomplishments. I love getting organized to set up for success as we enter a fresh new year, perhaps this year more than ever! This way I can let go of the past, and move forward with momentum. 

I don’t mean for this to sound like a brag-fest, and I know I’ve been incredibly fortunate to have had success with some of my endeavors this year. I assure you that in many moments it has felt like a struggle, and in some ways any productivity has been a way to deal with anxiety and stress. 

And, in other goals that I set out to achieve, I did fall short. Growth in some areas is slower than I’d like, and I have to face my own impatience about that, and strategize to do better. I hope to learn from all of it, and I believe that it’s important to celebrate wherever I can. This year, I was blessed with the following opportunities and experiences.

A Blythe Coach’s Accomplishments of 2020
  • Completed my YTT200 Yoga Teaching Credential with yogaloft here in Cologne, in German (it was SO valuable!)
  • Completed A2.1 Deutsch and have a pretty decent understanding of the language, especially contextually, and improved my speaking (meanwhile teaching ballet and yoga in both English and German)
  • Celebrated teaching for a full year at 2 studios in Cologne, extended my freelance work visa
  • Learned to teach on Zoom and improved my skills teaching with video, invested in better equipment to do so
  • Started the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel in March and since then, have posted weekly content on ballet, yoga, and life topics 
  • Started the A Blythe Coach Podcast at the end of April and this is my 30th weekly episode!
  • Recorded a promotional video in collaboration with a local videographer
  • Got a beautiful new website and logo by the talented Pixelchen&Karton
  • Started the A Blythe Coach weekly blog in September and published weekly
  • Created my first online course, “Finding a Grounded State of Being,” which you can access free here 
  • Started a weekly email newsletter in August, sharing updates and exclusive content there – want to join in for updates and inspiration? Just let me know or sign up here
  • Created @ABlytheCoach pages on Facebook and Instagram to share inspiration, support, tips, real-life moments, fun, and community 
  • Completed The Artist’s Way 12-Week Program, learned so much from that, including how to give myself regular Artist’s Dates and Treats to fuel my creativity and developing a consistent Morning Pages practice 
  • Completed a 21-Day Meditation Challenge with Deepak Chopra
  • Read the Bible cover-to-cover for the first time
  • Read over 35 books (so far!) toward my challenge goal of 24, including yoga philosophy, dance technique, spiritual topics, cozy mysteries, and novels… 
  • Practiced daily Yoga, Meditation, Journaling, Moon Phase tracking, Gratitude and Abundance Logs, Music (learned “Aloha ‘Oe” and “Auld Lang Syne,” having begun with “Silent Night” at the end of last year), and Tarot card intuitive interpretation
  • Participated in multiple weekly Micro-Workouts (about 10 minutes, 1-4x/week), Physical Therapy exercises (1-3x/week), and Wim Hof Method Cold Showers
  • Started learning to Crochet and practicing flexed-arm hang, aiming to eventually do Pull-Ups… was consistent at first then dropped off a bit, will revisit these goals next year
  • Voted in the US Presidential Election and also in a local Cologne election (for representatives of foreigners here)
  • Witnessed to and engaged in conversation and activism around Black Lives Matter, racism, and police brutality
  • And I did make it home to the Big Island, in January, thank goodness! Also lucky to enjoy some regional travel here when that was possible, including a wine weekend with friends.

I had started picking one-word themes a few years back and find that it helps me remember what I’m about and why I’m seeking whatever other goals I choose to pursue. So, my overarching theme for the year 2020 was “Courage” or, in German, “der Mut.” So many people have had such a hard time this year, and have had to be so much more courageous for their families that it is humbling. 

That said, I am only assessing my own efforts here, and having collected my accomplishments, as well as considering how I’ve faced the circumstances of each day, I do feel successful in this theme. I focused on being love to overcome fear, speaking (a new language!) and taking action where I could, as well as resting and caring for myself in order to keep going. I have been the brave badass I wanted to embody, having no idea what I would face!

I could not have done it alone, and am so grateful for the help and support I receive from my girlfriend, family, friends, students, clients, and colleagues!

Next time I’ll discuss the specific vision, skills, habits, and accomplishments I’m seeking in 2021, and following that I’m going to drill in on healthy habits that serve me and my projects and how to succeed at forming your own new habits to achieve your goals in dance, yoga, and life next year. 

Meanwhile, let me know what achievements you are celebrating from this year, and what you’re envisioning for yourself and the global community in the coming months. 

And if you want to listen in to one of the playlists I’ve made to boogie down to this season, check out Christmas Carol Dance Classon Spotify 🙂

Happy Holidays! 

Blythe Stephens
She/her or they/them
A Blythe Coach: 
Dance Education & Coaching to move through life with balance, grace, & power

** I have included links to recommend some of my very favorite books and as a reader, lifelong learner, and academic I hope you enjoy my recommendations. These are Amazon Affiliate links, and if you purchase them I stand to receive a percentage, cool! 

DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

The Gifts of Winter – Holiday Viewing, Listening, & Treats

“Winter is a table set with ice and starlight. Winter dark tends to warm light: fire and candle; winter cold to hugs and huddles; winter want to gifts and sharing; winter danger to visions, plans, and common endeavoring–and the zest of narrow escapes; winter tedium to merry-making.” 
– From the poem “Winter” by Greta Crosby

Winter at Tanzstudio Odenthal in Huerth, Germany

I know it’s not officially the season of winter yet, but I love a good winter festival of light, and the days are getting mighty short in Cologne right about now. It’s an ideal time for snuggles, hot cocoa, and lots of candles! 

I celebrate both Christmas and the Winter Solstice, but it’s certainly no surprise that many cultures have beautiful traditions at this time of year!

This year I am a bit sad not to make it home for the holidays. Further, our legendary Christmas markets won’t be happening in Cologne to help us through the winter. And, I know that the reason for said restricted travel and cancellation of beloved events has many people much sadder than me. 

It’s a hard time for a lot of folks, and I want you to know that I’m thinking of you. Let’s do what we can to stay safe this winter and bring merriment and joy into the dark season!

“The Nutcracker” Ballet and Music of Tchaikovsky

In the spirit, I wanted to share some favorite winter holiday things with you. Of course, I am enjoying music from “The Nutcracker,” will soon share the story with my young students, and hope to see a performance on video.

Holiday Tunes

I have a LOT of favorite holiday songs and playlists, but I’m getting up-to-date on festive new releases from this list, originally shared by my friend Hayley Sales, who appears on it!: “Best new holiday songs for 2020: Jenn Grant, Carly Rae Jepsen, Lil Nas X, more” 

I then created a Spotify Playlist from it, “Cuddle Up Downtown Christmas 2020” and would love to add some other new additions. What are your favorite new holiday tunes this year? Old classic favorite recommendations are also very welcome, I’ll add them to another list and listen now!

Feasting

In terms of edible treats, I especially savor drinking the aforementioned Hot Cocoa, as well as German mulled Gluehwein, and I’ll be baking Pumpkin Muffins, Ginger Snaps, and decorated Christmas Cookies as we move into December. 

TV Shows and Movies

I enjoy watching certain shows and movies at this time of year to get in the spirit, including “Gilmore Girls,” “Friends” holiday episodes, and  “Muppets Christmas Carol” (and I adore the soundtrack from that, too!), “Nightmare Before Christmas,” and “White Christmas.” 

Podcasts, Books, & Gift Guides

I have been enjoying the “Soul + Wit” Podcast since it started up this year, and particularly appropriate right now are their: “The Holiday Extravaganza” Holiday Book + Movie Recommendations episode, which has lots of goodies to read and watch, and the “Giving the Best Gifts” Gift Guide of homemade and purchased gifts, consumables, classes, and experiences. I recommend them if you’re looking for things you or loved ones might like!

Minimalism and the Spirit of the Season

My own gift-giving is inconsistent. Sometimes I get it together to select and give some gifts and write some cards, other times not so much. As something of a minimalist, on the receiving end I prefer very small symbolic gifts, sentimental cards, having donations given in my name (or giving donations to good causes in others’ names), and experiences to big, extravagant presents and the pressure to exchange gifts on a strict timeline. 

For me, it’s the time together, getting to talk and reconnect (at least by phone or electronically), and also the feasting, that makes the season merry for me. A few decorations, and witnessing the warmth and generosity of others really make it bright!

Beneficial Gift Ideas

Looking for special gifts to give or contributions to make this “Black Friday,” “Cyber Monday,” “Small Business Tuesday” and so on? I have a few ideas…

A couple of years ago I bought myself the month-long virtual advent calendar 31 Days of Gifts You So Deserve by Courtney Carver, and I liked it so much that last year I shared it with some loved ones. Carver is creator of the minimalist wardrobe Project 333, and a wonderful “Weekly Favorites” email newsletter that I enjoy, as well as co-creator, along with her daughter Bailey, of the “Soul + Wit” podcast I mentioned earlier. 31 Days of Gifts is especially great for folks who don’t want to acquire more “stuff” and those looking to focus on the magic found in the simple pleasures of the season. 

Rufio trying on her new reindeer costume

It’s wonderful to remember your local dance or yoga studio or creative small businesses and community organizations such as: 

Yoga and fitness…
Homegrown Yoga – Rachel Jensen teaches yoga online from Iowa
Infinity Corporate Fitness – based in Denver, CO
Jared Sam – teaches yoga from the Big Island of HI
The Kale Whale – Erin Whalen teaches yoga and vegan nutrition from MA
Sebastian’s Functional Fitness – Sebastian Grubb is in San Francisco, CA

Nonprofits in Dance & Yoga…
Yoga for First Responders – supporting those who support all of us
West Hawai’i Dance Academy – my beautiful home studio in Kailua-Kona, HI! They offer dance for all ages as well as Gyrotonic and other modalities
The Movement Center – “Creating good people through excellent training in the performing arts,” with classes for all ages in Honolulu, HI
Ballez – queer ballet company in NYC, also offering online classes

Artists…
@nali_makes resin casting and jewelry
@tinyneststudio nature-inspired and educational artwork
CPoArt sticker art
…I know so many talented artists and educators, I’m sorry I’ve certainly omitted many more that I would like to share! If you’d like to be featured in any future gift guides of this type or to collaborate in any way, let me know 🙂

And Causes…
I remember my grandparents’ joyful annual giving to their favorite charities such as World Wildlife Fund, Unicef, and of course Methodist organizations, and also my mother’s dedication to healthcare organizations like Planned Parenthood. Black Lives Matter and environmental organizations would be a great choice this year, or independent media sources such as feminist Bitch Media. It is also always timely to donate to a local food bank! 

I would be remiss if I didn’t share that some of my own offerings in dance, yoga, and coaching would also make good gifts for yourself and others:

It’s a challenging time for everyone, and that certainly includes artists and small businesses, so please think of us in your holiday giving this year! And please also know that your contributions, whether they be tangible gifts and monetary contributions, or time, love, and energy, are enough.

Warm wishes for a delightful holiday season!

8 (or 9) Ballet Body Positions/Orientations: relating to space, stage and audience

“Let us first deal with the new space we are going to journey into and occupy so as to not see it as a void and empty area, but a distinctly flavored environment.” The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique**

Image of a dancer with a buzz cut (me!) in attitude croise devant en pointe, in a long black skirt at a railing in an urban setting, Cologne. pc: Styled & photographed by Aldona Izabela

Last week I talked about the five positions of the feet and spatial intent, and today we’re, diving into the crystalline structure of the performance space in classical ballet and dance, how we orient ourselves in relationship to our audience, how different schools of classical ballet classify the walls and corners of the stage differently, and naming of the Body Positions of ballet. 

Conception of Space in Classical Ballet

In classical ballet, we occupy the space of a theoretical cube.

If our stage is in fact a rectangle or some other shape, that can function as well, but we continue to imagine a box or square around the body at all times, with the front wall facing our audience. Part of what makes it “classical” dancing is this, formerly courtly, context, and aesthetic ideas about lines, shapes, and proportion, what forms are most appealing and what variations in pose suggest in terms of narrative or mood. 

Angles, S-curves, and elongated lines, aristocratic bearing, dignity, romance, joy and playfulness, innocence, strength, grief and mourning…all of these and more can be expressed in the nuances of ballet performance and all of this emotion passes through body positions shared between ballet techniques. 

We begin the study of ballet theory with the 5+ positions of the feet, but then we must also explore the body’s position in relationship to the audience, the stage, and of course to the other dancers.

Presentation of the body is important to how the self or character is expressed and how the dancer extends greetings and interacts with others onstage and also sometimes directly with the audience. Pas de deux or partnering, lines and formations, and pathways of travel are also important to choreographic expression, but more on these in the future.

Ballet Body Orientation in Theory:
Ballet Orientations of the Body – theory” video

At the start of her seminal book, Basic Principles of Classical Ballet**, ballet pedagogue Agrippina Vaganova shares an important diagram of the student or dancer in their practice space and onstage and explains: 

“To indicate the degree of turn of the body, or the specific direction of a movement, I use the diagram reproduced here. On it: a–indicates the position of the pupil on the floor, 1–the middle of the footlight line, 2–the corner in front and to the right of the pupil, 3–the middle of the right side, etc.” 

The Cecchetti Method of Classical Ballet: Theory and Technique** by Cyril Beaumont and Stanislas Idzikowski also contains an “Explanatory diagram for the division of the walls of the practice-room into eight imaginary fixed points,” underscoring the importance for us to have a shared vocabulary with which to relate to our dancing space. The major schools of ballet disagree on the numbering of the various walls and corners of the space (or invisible box around the dancer), but what is more important than precisely how they are numbered is that the dancers and teacher or choreographer have a shared framework. 

A Few Orientations of the Body in a Centre Tendu Exercise:
Classical Ballet Centre Tendu, Temps lié, & Bourrée – Space & Body Directions” video

Once we have a shared language about the positions in the room, whether we use theatre language of “center stage,” “downstage,” “upstage,” “stage right,” “stage left” and so on, or the numbering of the corners and walls recognized by our preferred school of ballet technique, then we can describe, create, and study the Body Positions, of which there are eight or nine, depending on which technique you’re studying, including: 

  • En Face (facing front): à la quatrième devant (4th front) & derrière (4th behind), à la seconde (side/2nd) – you can practice these first 3 in the “Classical Ballet Centre Tendu” video above, and I demonstrate all of the positions in “Ballet Orientations of the Body – theory,” below and practice them all “Articulate Adage,” also below
  • Croisé: devant (crossed front) & derrière (crossed back)
  • Écarté: devant (spread side/front) & derrière (spread side/back) 
  • Effacé (shaded): devant (open front) & derrière (open back)
  • Epaulé (shouldered)
Adage Practicing All Classical Ballet Body Positions
Articulate Adage – Ballet Centre Développé & Body Positions” video also HERE

For more on fundamental ideas of spatial orientation and presence, you may also be interested in Podcast Episode “003: Finding an Oriented State of Being,” or my “The Body in Space” video on YouTube.

In the future, I’ll explore the way in which Laban Movement Analysis identifies affinities between moving in the spatial dimensions with qualities and moods, all of this as choreographic inspiration, and more!

Until then, please share which are your favorite ballet body positions and shapes, and if you’re enjoying my podcast, it means a lot if you would rate and review it favorably on iTunes, or if you dig any of my YouTube videos, give those a like, subscribe, and comment, too!

** I have included links to recommend some of my very favorite books and as a reader, lifelong learner, and academic I hope you enjoy my recommendations. These are Amazon Affiliate links, and if you purchase them I may receive a percentage, cool! 

DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

Ballet & Modern Dance Foot Positions & Spatial Intent

“After the in-place alignment, the teacher reviewed the plié and relevé series. The dancers performed the movements radiating out into the dimensions of the room or stage and projected them through the forward wall and out into the imagined audience and further out to the back of the auditorium. Open pliés were pressed out into space, and closed positions were performed from the ‘in place’ positions.”
The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique**

Image of a pond at a park in Cologne in Fall

Last week I talked about anatomical dimensions and spatial planes, body shapes and positions expressing these dimensions. Of course there are endless positions of the body, but today I am speaking specifically of classical ballet foot positions and related modern dance foot positions from Nikolais-Louis Technique. My podcast on the topic is “027: Ballet & Modern Dance Foot Positions and Spatial Intent.” 

Regarding the various classical ballet schools and the positions of the feet, in her book, The Ballet Companion** Eliza Gaynor Minden states that: “The syllabi of the major schools of ballet evolved as they traveled or underwent reinterpretation. Disciples can disagree, and disputes can arise over what the Cecchettis of the world really intended…The major schools of ballet all use Beauchamps’s original positions of the feet and, for the most part, the same French terminology. All maintain ballet’s traditions of courtesy and dignity; all prize grace and elegance. On the most fundamental aspects of technique there is no disagreement.”

In the future, I’ll also be discussing how the major schools of ballet disagree about the naming and performance of various positions and steps, but in classical ballet as well as some modern dance techniques, the positions of the feet are formed with externally-rotated or turned-out legs from the hip joint. In the resulting shapes, the heels more-or-less face one another on the floor, while the toes reach out at some degree away from one another to the sides. 

In ballet, “perfect” turnout is 180 degrees, or “flat” to the side in first position, resulting in a “shoebox” fifth position. HOWEVER, it is not necessary or advisable for most people to try to produce these precise shapes, especially early in their training! 

There’s a lot more to say about turnout in ballet, dance, and other techniques, but a few of it’s key results are stability in standing in closed and open positions of the feet, and as Gaynor Minden describes: “Turnout enables the dancer to move easily from side to side, to jump, and to pose without ever turning away from the audience […] Turnout is what enables a dancer to raise the leg elegantly to the side without displacing the hips or torso.”

Turnout is helpful in dancing to the extent that it is functional. Forcing it is ultimately not functional, and can also lead to knee or other injuries the likes of which I have experienced myself. Building balanced strength and flexibility is important to turnout or external rotation of the legs as well as to all of our movement possibilities, and rotation is an important concept, especially to classical ballet but also to modern and other dance forms. 

I implicitly understood, from years of practice, the import of pliés in all of the positions of the feet, but their significance became more explicitly clear to me when I took Modern Dance with Betsy Fisher at the University of Hawai’i. Having performed with the Murray Louis Dance Company, Fisher incorporated the technique into her teaching, especially featuring key ideas about space and shape, including the dimensions and planes I previously spoke of. 

I’ve followed up that practical technical training and experience with reading from the book Fisher recommended, The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique. Here we see the connection between the spatial dimensions and planes and the foot positions and movements of the body in dancing: “Since the dimensions of the body were the first principle to be explored, it was essential to establish a ‘room architecture’ and forward orientation, and to maintain this throughout the class. Once the architectural forward orientation was established, the body could then be related to it. This was also the beginning practice of stage directions.” 

Then, once spatial orientation is established, the body is thoroughly warmed up, including a plié series which is “based on the dimensions of the body and their extension into space. First position: in place vertical up and down, second position: width sideward R. and L., third position: in place diagonal, fourth position: open diagonal, fifth position: in place, sixth position: depth, forward-backward. Between open positions, return to vertical (in place) with proper arrival of arms and legs in closed positions, so the action goes from in to out–closed to open, in place to spatial.”
– The Nikolais/Louis Dance Technique**

Now there are some variations in the naming of these positions and those of classical ballet, this is a text of modern dance that I am quoting in this case, but there is a strong connection and logic of Beauchamps’ classical ballet positions and the Nikolais/Louis ones (notably a wider “open” fourth position than classical ballet), and I think the rhythm of alternating closed and open positions when one performs plié in each position in a row is an interesting shared feature. 

Each position appears differently to the audience, and each prepares us to move in different directions and in different ways, so we practice plié, the ultimate preparatory movement in ballet, in each shape.  If you want to learn more about and practice the movement of plié, I have a related podcast and YouTube video called “Powerful Plié” on the topic. 

In the sphere of yoga, there is certainly function and significance to each stance and posture as well, and I will continue to explore these and share connections with them in the future. I find it fascinating how each technique carries both proven functional effectiveness and cultural and historical significance.

I don’t know about you, but I feel like I deserve the holidays coming a little earlier this year, and so I’ve already begun to get out a few decorations, snack on the Santa-shaped chocolates and such that area already in stores, and listen to some holiday tunes. Of course, I’m always planning music and themes for my upcoming classes as well. In that spirit, this week’s Playlist is all music from “The Nutcracker” Ballet, with the tracks arranged in an order I have found conducive to using them for ballet or dance class exercises from warmup and barre exercises through centre. I hope you enjoy it!

In the future I will continue to explore the ways our body positions, shapes, orientation and movements function in dance. Until next time, I invite you to experience these spatial ideas in your next plié and trip through the positions of the feet in ballet, dancing, or other functional movement.

DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

** I have included links to recommend some of my very favorite books and as a reader, lifelong learner, and academic I hope you enjoy my suggestions. These are Amazon Affiliate links, and if you purchase them I also stand to receive a percentage, cool! 

Santosha in the Midst of Suspense : Contentment Regardless of Circumstance

“By contentment, supreme joy is gained.” 
The Yoga Sutra 2:42 

Fiery Red Fall Foliage in Cologne

“Well, religion does make us very rich, if we are satisfied with what we have.” 
– The Bible 1 Timothy 6:6

In my last blog, I talked about anatomical dimensions and spatial planes, and I will resume the discussion of the element of Space in dance next week, but with the start of November, I wanted to take the opportunity to infuse some contentment and gratitude in my practice and offerings. 

If you’re reading this in real time, there’s suspense over the outcome of the US Presidential Election, and although we have done our part in voting and promoting a fair and democratic election process, it can be hard to relax as we await the results.

And yet, this is exactly what the yoga philosophy of Patanjali’s Yoga Sutra** says to do, what the Bible advises, in fact what all major wisdom and faith traditions suggest. Act, yes, but also don’t be attached to the results, trust that you have done what you could, have patience, and in the meantime, be content. No matter what circumstances may arise!

Santosha

Patanjali uses the word Santosha or contentment and in his translation of the Yoga Sutra**, Satchidananda explains: “As a result of contentment, one gains supreme joy. Here we should understand the difference between contentment and satisfaction. Contentment means to just be as we are without going to outside things for our happiness. If something comes, we let it come. If not, it doesn’t matter. Contentment means neither to like nor dislike.”

In his classic book Light on Yoga**, Iyengar discusses the effects of this state or lack thereof: “Santosa or contentment has to be cultivated. A mind that is not content cannot concentrate…a contented man is complete for he has known the love of the Lord and has done his duty. He is blessed for he has known truth and joy.” It would seem that contentment is key to our spiritual growth.

Humming Bee Pranayama
Humming Bee Breath is said to promote contentment. Link to YouTube also HERE

This week in yoga, we’ve been practicing contentment and relaxation with “Yoga Nidra” and “Humming Bee Breath” practices, videos on my YouTube Channel.

Yoga Nidra
Yoga Nidra progressive relaxation practice also HERE
Contentment Practices for Daily Life

Bringing yogic philosophy into a modern context, Judith Lasater also celebrates the benefits of Santosha in her book, Living Your Yoga**: “Contentment asks for only one thing: that you truly live in the experience of the moment. With contentment comes a lessening of fear. And with this comes the ability to share the most important thing you have been given: your love, your wholeness.” Lasater also recommends a host of contentment practices and mantras for daily living to try in addition to yoga and meditative practice: 

“Contentment Practice: You can train yourself to be aware of your impulses toward greed. Whenever you find yourself feeling greedy about time, food, love, or something else, I suggest that you practice this Mantra for Daily Living. There is always enough. You can say it either to yourself or out loud. As you do, invite contentment into your heart…Make your own list of what strikes you about the life you have been given. If you’d like, you can develop your ‘contentment muscle’ by keeping the list going. Add to the list each day or however often works best for you…Return what you borrow; give away what you really do not need…”

Mantras for Daily Living: 

  • I live with contentment.
  • I am filled by the life that I have been given. 
  • There is always enough.
  • I can’t be greedy and grateful at the same time.
  • What can I be grateful for right now?

In recent years, I have begun keeping a daily gratitude log, and have recently added an abundance list as well. These types of practices help me feel happy and content every day. Since I did “The Artist’s Way” this year, I’ve also picked up noticing synchronicity (also known by some as blessings or answered prayers) and I am bowled over by recent synchronicity in my life. 

How amazing that my (delayed) yoga training managed to JUST complete in time for a recently-announced November lockdown? And that the very day I had my practical exam, I was offered a new online yoga class with Tanzraum, one of the studios I currently teach ballet? It’s uncanny, and I’m working to notice all these instances where things align. 

A Few Fall Poetry Faves

A Blythe Coach Fall Poetry Favorites Podcast #026 on Anchor

Poetry also helps me face whatever may come, and this week I’m celebrating the change of the seasons with some “Fall Poetry Favorites” on my Podcast and YouTube Channel

Fall Poetry Favorites YouTube video also accessible HERE
Ballet: Centre Tendu

This week we’re developing basic classical ballet technique and practicing spatial ideas in a Centre Tendu combination as foreshadowing of more spatial fun next week:

Centre Tendu Ballet combination with spatial ideas also HERE

Got a new collection of dance playlists cleaned up for late fall and my online teaching while on lockdown again, including this 

Late Fall / Thanksgiving Dance Playlist on Spotify which I hope you enjoy. 

In observance of this time of year of harvest, gratitude and celebration, in November I am offering one of my favorite coaching tools to one person weekly. This is the Essence Conversation, and it is about a 90-minute conversation about how you are showing up in life. How would you like to show up this holiday season? Enjoy this complimentary coaching session with me by making an appointment on my Calendly calendar in November. It’s a transformational conversation all on it’s own, and you’ll come away with actionable steps to show up your best for the holidays, into 2021, and beyond! 

Where are you practicing contentment this week? 

** I have included links to recommend some of my very favorite books and as a reader, lifelong learner, and academic I hope you enjoy my recommendations. These are Amazon Affiliate links, and if you purchase them I stand to receive a percentage, cool! 

DISCLAIMER: A Blythe Coach recommends that you consult your physician regarding the applicability of any recommendations and follow all safety instructions before beginning any exercise program. When participating in any exercise or exercise program, there is the possibility of physical injury. If you engage in this exercise or exercise program, you agree that you do so at your own risk, are voluntarily participating in these activities, assume all risk of injury to yourself.

The Body in Space – anatomical dimensions, planes, and posture in dance & life

“To understand the concepts of balance and counterbalance through posture and placement, it is helpful to identify (1) each of the three body planes, which link two of the three dimensions of height, width, and depth, (2) the center of gravity, (3) the central vertical axis, and (4) the base of support.” 

– Rory Foster, Ballet Pedagogy: The Art of Teaching ** 

Last week I talked about the dynamic actions that make the creation of shapes with the body possible, and now we focus on the intersection between the elements of the body and space, starting with how we describe the shapes themselves in anatomical dimensions and spatial planes, so they can ultimately be used in expression and reproducible in choreography, as well as describable and understandable to audiences. We can use discipline-specific language to do this of course, but to me it is valuable to work conceptually as this helps us to work effectively across disciplines over the course of our lifespan.

Learning the spatial language of the body, the dimensions and planes, opens doors to understanding functional anatomy, kinesiology, medicine, biology, behavioral psychology, dance, yoga, and athletic techniques of dynamic alignment and movement, movement analysis, and choreography. 

Planes of Space & the Body – Elements of Dance video on YouTube also HERE

Peggy Hackney provides a nice succinct summary of the Laban Movement Analysis definition of the dimensions and planes of space in her book, Making Connections**:
“Our world has three cardinal dimensions. Each dimension contains two directions which are opposite poles: Vertical–Up/Down; Sagittal–Forward/Backward; Horizontal–Left/Right or sideward open/sideward closed. Each direction is one spatial pull…Movement in the three cardinal planes is movement which invests in two spatial pulls at the same time; for instance up and left in the vertical plane. Each plane is like a flat cycle, or rectangle. Vertical Plane–combines Up/Down and Right/Left; Sagittal Plane–combines Forward/Backward and Up/Down; Horizontal Plane–combines Right/Left and Forward/Backward.”

The Anatomy Coloring Book**, commonly used for studying anatomy in all disciplines, including my kinesiology for dancers class in grad school, further describes the planes thusly:

“The median plane is the midline longitudinal plane dividing the head and torso into right and left halves. The presence of the sectioned midline of the vertebral column and spinal cord is characteristic of this plane. The median plane is the middle sagittal (mid-sagittal) plane.
The sagittal plane is a longitudinal plane dividing the head and torso into left and right parts (not halves). It is parallel to the median (not medial) plane.”
Regarding the sagittal plane, Rory Foster in the book Ballet Pedagogy adds: “The sagittal plane is a vertical line that symmetrically bisects the body into right and left halves. When viewed from the front with the feet in first position, this line runs from the top of the head through the center of the body ending between the heels–the base of support for the evenly distributed gravitational weight of the body. The spatial dimensions in movement are height and depth, as in a forward bend or backbend or a somersault forward or backward.”
This is why we also call the sagittal plane the “wheel” plane, if we move or roll forwards or backwards like a wheel, we are moving through the sagittal plane. 

Back to the Anatomy Coloring Book, it describes the coronal plane: “The coronal or frontal plane is a longitudinal plane dividing the body (head, torso, limbs) or its parts into front and back halves or parts.” – Anatomy Coloring Book
Ballet Pedagogy adds: “The coronal (vertical) plane is a vertical line that divides the body into front and back parts. When viewing this line from a profile position with the feet in parallel, it runs from the top of the head, just in front of the ear, continuing through the pelvis, hip joint, knee, and into the metatarsal or transverse arch in front of the ankle. The spatial dimensions in movement are height and width, as in a stretch or cambré to the side or a cartwheel.”
The coronal/frontal/vertical plane is also called the “door” plane, as one is in this plane while standing in a doorway, or while gesturing or moving to the side. 

“The coronal and sagittal planes together establish the central vertical axis, also referred to as the line of gravity or the plumb line.” – again Ballet Pedagogy

The Anatomy Coloring Book describes the transverse or horizontal plane: “The transverse plane divides the body into upper and lower halves or parts (cross sections). It is perpendicular to the longitudinal planes. Transverse planes may be horizontal planes of the upright body. Transverse planes are called ‘axial’ or ‘transaxial’ sections/slices by radiologists.”
Ballet Pedagogy adds, “The horizontal (transverse) plane divides the body into upper and lower halves. The spatial dimensions in movement are width and depth (rotation) as in a pirouette or fouette turn.”
The transverse/horizontal plane is also known as the “table” plane, as when we move or gesture in this plane, it is as if across a tabletop.

“The point at which all three planes (coronal, sagittal, and horizontal) cross each other is the center of gravity (COG)–the imaginary point where all parts of the body balance each other. This is located just below the navel at the body’s midline and anterior to the second sacral vertebra.” – again Ballet Pedagogy

Ballet Pedagogy helps put all of these concepts together to apply to our posture in ballet dancing practice: “Correct ballet posture and placement also require elongation through the legs and torso by means of lengthening and stretching. This is universally known and often misunderstood as pull-up. Elongating the body raises the center of gravity. By raising it, we increase the distance from our center of gravity and our base of support on one or both feet. It is done by lengthening and stretching the spinal column, thereby elongating the spine’s natural curves. This causes diminished stability, but enables greater mobility, allowing the dancer to move with speed, lightness, and grace. The diminished stability factor is overcome by years of muscular development and control while refining technique… There should be a sensation of pushing downward through the legs from the hip joints while lengthening and pulling up from the waistline. Upward elongation or the torso from the waist should be felt primarily in the spine–head, neck, shoulders, and arms should remain free of any tension. Maintaining this stance requires core abdominal strength as well as control in the upper back and between the shoulder blades.”

If you’re an auditory learner or enjoy podcasts, you might also enjoy this content on my podcast. “The Body in Space” is the second in my podcast series on the Elements of Dance, where I’ll be explaining each Element, including The Body, Action, Shape/Shaping/Space, Time, and Quality/Energy and how I use them in choreography, criticism, teaching, and reflective practice. It’s also my 25th podcast, and I’m incredulous that I’ve already produced that many! It’s been a fun way to collect and share themes from my dancing, yoga, teaching, and coaching practices. If you want to explore the concept of space more on the podcast, check out 003: Finding an Oriented State of Being, & 013: Electric Flow in Dance, Yoga, & Life.

We discussed the abdominal strength required to maintain this alignment last week, and this week I created a couple videos on the A Blythe Coach YouTube Channel that teach and reinforce the anatomical dimensions and planes. Coming up, I’ll be connecting these ideas about the body in space to the larger space in which the dancer performs, and in which the artist or person moves. 

“Ebullient Battement & Passe” ballet video is also available HERE

My ballet offering this week is “Ebullient Battement & Passe,” in which I teach the movements of battements dégagé, grand battements, coupé, & passé, and the shapes of sur-le-cou-de-pied, and retiré. I also reinforce the anatomical plane concepts discussed this week.

In the sphere of yoga, in the Bhagavad Gita** the ideal posture for meditative practice is described as follows: “Keep the body, head, and neck erect without looking about; gaze instead toward the tip of your nose.” As discussed in my “Electric Flow in Dance, Yoga, & Life” podcast, this allows for energy or prana to “flow easily through the spine along the important nadis passing through all the chakras.”

Anatomy of Hatha Yoga** demonstrates how important proper alignment is to our practice in an experiential practice:
“No breathing technique will work unless you are sitting correctly, as two simple experiments will show. First sit perfectly straight and breathe evenly, remaining aware of the elliptical nature of the breathing cycle and making sure that you are not creating pauses or jerks at either end of the ellipse. Now slump forward slightly and allow the lumbar lordosis to collapse. Notice three things: inhalation is more labored, exhalation starts with a gasp, and it is impossible to use the abdominal muscles smoothly to aid exhalation. Breathing evenly is impossible and meditation is impossible. The lesson is obvious: Don’t slump. 
Now sit on the edge of a chair. Keep the lumbar lordosis maximally arched but lean forward, making an acute angle between the torso and the thighs. Watch your breathing. The abdominal muscles now have to push strongly against a taut abdomen to aid exhalation. Then, at the beginning of inhalation, if you relax your respiration, air rushes into the airways. Try restraining inhalation and notice that active abdominal muscles are required to prevent the sudden influx of air. The lesson here? Don’t lean forward, even with a straight back.”

As I mentioned last week, the topic of establishing physical integrity and alignment is also related to integrity in our actions. As an ontological coach, I learned through Accomplishment Coaching that “Resolving issues with one’s sense of integrity is a daily practice. We begin to have a low tolerance for being out of integrity. We practice and grow greater awareness of our integrity. Making choices based on a context that victimizes us becomes unacceptable. Our lives take on a new power when we are in process to restore our integrity.” 

In the future, I’ll cover related topics about the crystalline structure of the performance space in ballet and dance, how different schools of classical ballet classify the walls and corners of the stage differently, the way in which Laban Movement Analysis identifies affinities between moving in the spatial dimensions with qualities and moods, all of this as choreographic inspiration, and more!

My featured dance production and company this week is Pilobolus, especially their productions of “Atlas Shrugged” and “Shadowland,” which are great examples of use of the dimensions and planes and other spatial concepts in dance as well as a collaborative process and innovative partner work. On the topic of Pilobolus, during my MFA studies at the University of Hawai’i, I had the great pleasure of participating in a master class from former company member Matt del Rosario, a fellow North Carolina School of the arts alum who also grew up in Hawai’i. Sometimes it is a small world!

I never meant for my playlists to become a weekly thing, as usually I only come up with new ones for my classes seasonally, as well on occasion for myself, but I suppose I’ve been particularly prolific lately, and this week I’m sharing my “Send Me – Bluesy Autumn JazzPlaylist.

In observance of this time of year of harvest, gratitude and celebration, in November I am offering one of my favorite coaching tools to one person weekly. This is the Essence Conversation, and it is about a 90-minute conversation about how you are showing up in life. How would you like to show up this holiday season? Enjoy this complimentary coaching session with me by  making an appointment on my Calendly calendar in November. It’s a transformational conversation all on it’s own, and you’ll come away with actionable steps to show up your best for the holidays, into 2021, and beyond!

A bit of exciting personal news, I’m completing my 200-Hour Yoga Teacher Training this month (at last–it was originally scheduled to be completed in the summer, but due to the pandemic things had to be shifted considerably- glad we can complete it at all! I have learned so much and am excited to keep sharing more in the future. But due to activities around this milestone, I am publishing this blog a bit later than usual, and will not post another until next week.

Until then, Happy Halloween!, and I invite you to become aware of your posture as it relates to these spatial ideas and practice physical integration for your dancing and your life.

Blythe Stephens
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Dance Education & Coaching to move through life with balance, grace, & power

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Stability & Aplomb: Integrity in Action

Elements of Dance: The Body, Core

“Definite stability is achieved only when the dancer realizes and feels the colossal part the back plays in aplomb. The stem of aplomb is the spine. The dancer should learn to feel and control her spine through observation of muscular sensations in the region of the back during various movements. When you manage to get the feeling of it, and to connect it with the muscles in the regions of the waist, you will be able to perceive this stem of stability.”
Basic Principles of Classical Ballet: Russian Ballet Technique of Agrippina Vaganova 

Integration in Yoga and Ballet

I have noticed in my work as a dancer and as a yoga practitioner that there are certain universal physical, anatomic, and kinesiological principles that help us to perform successfully, and there are therefore similar ways that we use the supportive musculature of the body to support our aims. 

Of course the body works how it works and obeys physical laws, no matter what discipline we practice. I enjoy how the approaches, language, and visualization from different philosophies (including of course yoga and dance, which also take from other traditions and take diverse forms) can help create transformation and growth in our chosen areas of focus. 

Core Support and Breathing

A key example is breath and core support, or integration of the systems of the body. In class a teacher might cue to “lift the belly button up,” “use your core,” “draw your belly button in towards the spine,” close the ribcage, engage through the center, feel length or elongate your posture through the spine from the support of feet or pelvis through the crown of the head,” etc.

There are certain shapes that we are trying to make, but also dynamic actions that are supporting those shapes. 

In yoga we use pranayama or breath techniques as well as asana or postures to develop stability and ease. In the Yoga Sutra Patanjali speaks of the necessity for both steadiness and ease, in our practice. 

In her manual of ballet technique, Agrippina Vaganova includes  “Stability & Aplomb” in her basic elements of classical technique.

Link to my “Get Integrated: Bandha Support Yoga” 27-minute practice also HERE
Yoga Bandhas: Physical and Energetic Integration

In fact, in yogic philosophy there isn’t just one “body’” but three, Physical, Energetic, & Causal, and the “yoking” of yoga is bringing these Physical and “Subtle” bodies into integrity or alignment with one another.  

One technique to support yoga practice and physical integration for dance and athletic endeavor is engagement of the Bandhas. Three of the most commonly applied bandhas are the Mula, Uddiyana, & Jalandhara, which together form the “master bandha,” the Maha Bandha.

Bandhas fall under the larger classification of Mudras, which can be gestures or positions of the hands or other parts of the body, with bandhas specifically involving, engagement or “locks” of specific muscle groups. 

Skull Shining Breath YouTube video also accessible HERE
Kapalabhati: Skull Shining Breath

Energetic activity through these three bandhas promotes dynamic alignment and balances the body(ies). One practice to engage the Uddiyana Bandha is Kapalabhati Pranayama, also known as Skull Shining Breath or Breath of Fire. 

“Kapalabhati consists of alternating short, explosive exhales and slightly longer, passive inhales. Exhales are generated by powerful contractions of the lower belly (between the pubis and the navel), which push air out of the lungs. Inhales are responses to the release of this contraction, which sucks air back into the lungs.”  – Dwayne’s “Eight-Limbed Path & Pranayama” handout notes 

 Anatomy of Hatha Yoga explains that “Kapalabhati is one of the six classic cleansing exercises in hatha yoga, and it is especially effective in lowering alveolar carbon dioxide in the lower segments of the lungs. Like the bellows, kapalabhati is not only energizing, it develops strength and stamina, and it teaches you to coordinate the abdominal muscles for skillful use in other exercises such as agni sara, uddiyana bandha, and nauli.” (p.116)

In my yoga teacher training Kapalabhati was taught as “alternating short, explosive exhales and slightly longer, passive inhales. Exhales are generated by powerful contractions of the lower belly (between the pubis and the navel), which push air out of the lungs. Inhales are responses to the release of this contraction, which sucks air back into the lungs.”  (Dwayne Holliday)

Further Resources for Developing Core Support

Interested in more exercises for practicing Core Support? Check out my YouTube playlist: “Concentrated Core Conditioning” for my favorite ways to train center connectivity, integration, and strength. 

Petit Battements small leg beat practice also linked HERE
Ballet Petit Battement Exercise

Massive core support is required for the smallest and quickest movements as well as the largest and most grandiose. An example is petit battement, this week’s ballet tutorial video, which are tiny beats of the legs that require stability through the standing side and stationary body parts while below the knee quickly flutters to the side. 

Total Body Integration

This physical core strength is deeply connected to internal, metaphorical core strength as well. I like how Peggy Hackney puts it in Making Connections: Total Body Integration Through Bartenieff Fundamentals:

“When I perceive ‘Core Support’ in someone, I experience in that person an alive, central core which actively engages to both uphold the body and energize interaction within the individual and with his/her environment. The word ‘support,’ according to Webster, means ‘to carry the weight of.’ The weight of the body is carried or borne up effectively, so that there is an ease in being in his/her body in either movement or stillness. The word ‘support’ also means ‘to encourage, help, advocate.’ When I think of ‘Core Support’ in this sense, I think of being able to do what I want to do effectively, with faith that I can function and express myself as a mover…Both of these types of support seem to be facilitated on the Body level by establishing a lively connection in the inner core of the body.”

“024: Stability & Aplomb, or Integrity in Action” is the second in my podcast series on the Elements of Dance, where I’ll be explaining each Element, including The Body, Action, Shape/Shaping/Space, Time, and Quality/Energy and how I use them in choreography, criticism, teaching, and reflective practice. I have a couple previous videos on related topics as well:
011: Creating Good Space: yogic sukha & sthira / steadiness & ease &
002: Finding a Centered State of Being

Integrity and Integration in Coaching

As an ontological coach, taking care of the physical body, and well-being in general is a top priority, as is integrity between thought, word, and deed. Several of my Accomplishment Coaching Tools speak of Integrity and Integration:

“Integration is to make into a whole by bringing all parts together. In coaching, we use it to describe bringing all the parts of a person into harmony. It means being complete, and including all parts of oneself – the shadow side, the humanity, as well as the greatness. It can also refer to including that which we do not like, or judge about ourselves, or even those parts of us that we are neglecting, ignoring or taking for granted. It is a context question: What part(s) of myself am I not integrated with now?” (Accomplishment Coaching tools)

How will you care for your body and foster integrity this week?

Speaking of the element of the Body…

The more diverse and inclusive ballet and dance is, in my opinion, the better! So I was excited to see that major ballet brands are moving in that direction as well, such as Gaynor Minden, who create pointe shoes and whose brand ambassadors are called “Gaynor Girls,” but who now have a body-positivity activist and and “Gaynor Guy” now on the list. Pointe Magazine wrote an article about it here.

Ballet Performance of the Week

Their satirizing of the femininity of ballet, while simultaneously performing it with virtuosity, has always made me appreciate Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo. If you haven’t seen them simultaneously poke fun at and celebrate a love of ballet, I definitely recommend them. So glad I had the chance to see a live performance while living in Honolulu!

Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo, video link also HERE (especially the classic “Dying Swan” at 56:00 & the “Go for Barocco” Balanchine parody at 42:29)

Core strength gives a feeling of empowerment, and along those lines, I’ve been working on a playlist (always in-progress) called “Hard-Core Butt-Kicking Rockstar Songs,” give it a listen to boost your mood and get ready to take on the world, whatever may come 🙂 What music do you play when you need to get pumped up to face the day?

Thanks for reading, I hope you’re enjoying my weekly synthesis of themes related to dance, yoga, and life!

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